I'm 14 about to be 15 and my ex is a junior (16). we went out during fall break//part of homecoming week of october. it was random cuz he asked me out over myspace which is like weird to me. anyways, we broke up during hc week and i heard it was cuz he wanted to be single and i acted different than on myspace. i was just upset because the day he broke up w/me, i said hey call me later and he said ok. he messages me on myspace and says oh we should just be friends and i made it clear i still liked him but i said ok. it was hard, but i got over it. i had no reason to go to the stugo room at skool besides the fact that my friends were there but he was there too so i just skipped it and did my hw during my free class. in nov., he replied to my bulletin and said i missed u wats up..and i told him since he was a friend still. then he randomly asked if i still liked him and said he wanted me to be in a friend vibe. i snapped because i felt like he went out of his way just to see wat i was up
2007-02-14 06:35:44 · 7 answers · asked by lalayahhh115 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to. i also snapped because it seemed like he randomly messaged me just to say we're friends which i already knew and to basically see if i still liked him so he could i guess rub it in. then we just never talked and he'd just ignore me. i havent talked to him since oct. but he stares at me. i know ppl say u'd have to be staring to know if he was starin but not so. my friend was lookin at him and i was talkin to sumone else and she said that guy's watchin u and i said he's my ex-boyfriend. then i saw him after school and i was gettin picked up by my mom and i stared at him because i honestly thought he was someone else [lol]. i was thinkin to myself i had seen him before but i just didnt know where and then once i realized it was him, i wondered why he was staring back but i quickly just shifted my eyes elsewhere. i'm not mad at him, and i even forgive him for deleting me off myspace AND my sister who didnt do a thing but i just don't know how to go up to him and talk so i dont.
2007-02-14 06:36:27 · update #1
and he still talks to my other friend and i know he waited until i caught the skool bus and left to talk to her because i watched him do it. they're jus friends and nothing more.
2007-02-14 06:36:56 · update #2
sorry..i'm known for my long drawn out stories and the question is why does he stare at me but just ignores me? everytime i'm about to talk to him, i a)get nervous or b) see him walk right past before i can get anything out
2007-02-14 06:41:17 · update #3
just to add another thing..my sister is really my best friend but everyone knows us as the twin towers because we look alike and we we're really tall [im 5' 8, she's 5 6 or 7]..i dont wanna be with him cuz he's so different and has dated a lot of girls...but i dont know i kinda still think bout wat we COULD have had..it's all over..
2007-02-14 06:44:18 · update #4
im sorry to add one more but my friends take no interest in them..the only reason he started talkin to her was because she was going to go out with his friend and because he liked me...she doesn't want him at all and already has a boyfriend..and he doesn't want her because he has a girlfriend
2007-02-14 06:46:04 · update #5
i'm Christian..he's muslim and african...but he's not supposed to date because of his religion but he does it anyways.
2007-02-14 06:49:43 · update #6
He's confused about what he wants. Move on and do your own thing. If he notices you have done so and wishes to never loose you, then he will definitely tell you straight up what he wants...
If not, then don't bother.
2007-02-14 06:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now the best thing for you is to focus on having more friends instead of just one guy. That's not what you want to hear but it is really the best for you.
As for why he stares at you, maybe he thinks you are really beautiful but otherwise has no interest in you, or maybe his parents won't let him date now and he doesn't want to tell you that.
2007-02-14 06:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god my story is just like yours!!!! my ex got my email in oct and then we met up, when out for 2months and a bit then he dumped me at x-mas on msn said he didn't feel the same anymore. i was so hurt and confused we both go to the same school and when i see him i try not to look his way but last friday i saw him stare at me from across the street i felt like puting up my middle finger up towards him but i didn't i just walked on it really hurts tho just seeing his face , but in the end its his loss! its been a few months now and we have had no contact at all. on msn he ignores me and thats fine with me. yes i still have feelings for him ( well the old him) but not this new him who was to much of a coward to dump me to my face its hard but i've had to move on and i think thats what we both have to do, even tho it hurts, see how they like lt when we ignore them too!!! i wish you all the best and if you want to email me feel free to do so.
2007-02-14 06:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
snap out and get yourself new friends nad find new places to hand out at!!! there is no such thing as love at this age, it is firsr infatuation. there will come a new friend if you start to feel yourself free of him!!!!!!!
2007-02-14 06:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by mc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him in person about how you feel.
2007-02-14 06:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just hasn't gathered the courage to approach you
2007-02-14 06:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Miss. 2Sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your question is????
2007-02-14 06:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋