valentine´s day is always a hell for us since my dad had died but this year it´s even worse because my bf has been here and mom was very sensitive about this, now she can´t stop crying, what can I do?
2007-02-14 06:32:14 · 9 answers · asked by Carrie 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Aw, your mom is so fortunate to have such a caring child. She is grieving which is perfectly natural with such a great loss. Just be there for her, comfort her. She may never get over the loss, but it will hurt less as time passes. Maybe you can make dinner for her, or have a nice dinner delivered to your home.
2007-02-14 06:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get her a Valentines Day present and spend the day with her try to get her to have some fun. Take her to a movie or something.
2007-02-14 06:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mother of 2 teen agerers I suggest even though it's not fair to you send your bf home and spend the day with your mother and let her know you don't mind and there is nowhere else you would rather be.. God bless you both.
2007-02-14 06:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get her some flowers and maybe take her to lunch or do some shopping. Take her to get a pedicure-something to take her mind off of it. Maybe put your V-day off until this weekend and you and mom just make a day of it, make it a mother daughter day for years to come so it is not so much of a dread. Sorry about your losses.
2007-02-14 06:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by serina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have money why not take her out to eat for supper or buy her some flowers and a nice card or some candy. Plan something to take her mind off of the day.
2007-02-14 06:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her grive and let her know how much you love her. Maybe be her valentine. Take her out to dinner. My mother pasted away two months ago and I have been very worried how my dad is going to do but I called him and asked him to be my date for the night.
2007-02-14 06:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love your mom and let her know you do. Try to spend more time with her without the boyfriend around. (Don't eliminate him from your home, just have more "Mom" time.) She will appreciate your gesture.
2007-02-14 06:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will ease her pain by just being near to her and listening if she wants to talk. Remind her that she is loved and be affectionate with her today especially.
2007-02-14 07:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love you, honey!
2007-02-14 06:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋