2007-02-14 06:27:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you got bored of her and it wasnt meant to last so long.
2007-02-14 06:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Longevity in a relationship does not equal love. Maybe you feel deep down that you two are just not compatible, or maybe you're not really attracted to her. Or it could be that you have a phobia of commitment and purposely prevent yourself from loving her so you don't have to get too close and risk rejection. Either way, if you don't really love her, then do her a favor and break up with her so she can find someone who is better for her. Just wait until after Valentine's Day please.
2007-02-14 14:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not the one. You're bored with her. It was never love, it was just momentary infatuation and you made the mistake of getting involved. You were never in love with her, you were just using her for sex. You have stayed together for so long because the relationship became habitual and one or both of you was too lazy to end it and find someone else. The relationship has gone on for as long as it was supposed to and now it's time to move on. End it now before resentment sets in (and it will) and things turn ugly. Move on and find someone else so that both of you can be happy.
2007-02-14 14:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would seem to me that you and her need to break it off. It is not impossible to meet a girl and become unloved by her. At the beginning, she was what you wanted in life . In your mind you must remember that women and men should believe that their loving relationship with each other are transparent.
Understand, you and her quietly separate your lives and break it off gently. It would be your responsibility to respectively ask her how she truly feels. Even as you quietly talked about your personal feelings. Just expect that this could take a few days to be concluded.
2007-02-14 14:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't go on. You know for a fact that it's not love, then don't lead her on because your going to hurt her more. You've becomed attached to her. Your used to her, but this is just like a routine of being with her and have lost the feeling that you hoped at the beginning that it could become something and actually didn't. There's someone for everyone and if she's not the one for you, then your not the one for her either, but just put yourself in her shoes, wouldn't you like to know the truth before it went further!! : (
2007-02-14 14:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what love is? You might find out that if she goes away you feel lost without her. If not then maybe you should break up. Are you just using her? Only you know the answer.
2007-02-14 14:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by coffee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's safe for you. You don't have to open yourself up to be rejected because you have a safety net with her. You are scared to move on. I'm sure she's great, but she's just not for you if you don't love her. Don't waste your life with someone you don't love. Otherwise you are not really living.
2007-02-14 14:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to that one!!! The best thing to do is end it, if you don't have feelings for her now then you should let her know and quit wasting both of ya'lls time.
2007-02-14 14:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by *♥Tarita♥* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has been comfortable for you to have her around. You probably like her, but she doesn't do to you what she used to, however, that's a mutual responsibility. If you want that spark, you will have to go elsewhere, but if you like the arrangement and she is OK with it then so be it.
2007-02-14 14:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long u been with her?
and maybe because u didnt take her serious at first or ur not taking her serious. because if u feel that you should tell her and stop wasting her time.
2007-02-14 14:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force yourself to love someone. You aren't doing your girlfriend any favors by staying with her when you don't love her.
2007-02-14 14:33:19 · answer #11 · answered by Quest4questions 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋