my sis had sex at church! should i tell my parents?

Answer 1

Yes you should. This is a serious matter that should be resolved immediatly.

Answer 2

I am assuming that this bothers you. Why don't you tell her how you fell about it first, and then give her a chance to respond, before you throw her under the bus. I am assuming that she is young perhaps a teenager, and you are concerned about her behavior and possibly her safety, as well as the choices she is making, not to mention her morals/ethics. Your concern here should not only be where she is having sex, but is she being safe, does she have multiple partners, is there possible substance abuse, or sexual abuse involved? How old is she?
I think if you rush to tell your parents, you may never find out the answers, because she will most likely just cover her tracks and possibly lie about her sexual activity.
Maybe she is crazy in love, and is just being spontaneous, and is practicing monogamous safe sex. Although unlikely, you never know. I married my high school boyfriend and we are still very much in love, and have been together 17 years. Lets just say we were often pretty wild in the high school days (but never in church) What would Jesus Say! LOL
I would get to the bottom of it first, then you can decide if you need to tell your parents. Think of the implications this would have on your relationship, your parent's and your future in their home, if you rush to tell on her. Only get them involved if it is the worst case scenario (abuse, promiscuity, unprotected sex, etc.) and even then I would approach it carefully. Good Luck, or shall I say God Luck.

Answer 3

She should tell on herself because she chose to have sex in church! Besides, your sister should take full responsibility for her actions and telling your parents about what happened will place you in a very bad position!

Answer 4

yes, the reason why is because she is not only disobedient but she is nasty. she did not have to have sex at church out of all the places in the world. and besides she is not married and shouldnt be having sex anyways

Answer 5

Yes, you should tell them soon. Your father needs to get her straightened out. He can share with her his Staff of Life, his Rod of God. She will have a better understanding of how to have sex at church or anywhere else.
k

Answer 6

Your sister had sex in church if it were me i wouldn't tell, i would talk to her if she cant respect her body and respect the house of god then she shouldn't be their.

Sarah

Answer 7

i most definitely wouldnt say anything to your parents... god will deal with her in his own way... and you could screw up your relationship with your sis for the rest of your lives so just let it go and maybe she will eventually tell them her self... the guilt could break her!

Answer 8

Do not, God can take care of Himself. Do not intervene! If there is a "higher" message or a lesson that your sister has to "learn" the Almighty will give it to her.

Answer 9

NO!!! Definately not!!! That would totally ruin her trusting you if at all??? She gets to make her own decisions and thats the decision she made... Telling your parents won't make things better. What's done is done... That wouldn't be good on her

Answer 10

Eeeewwwwwww! That is just sacrilegious. As well as down right disrespectful. Hell yeah! You should tell your parents.

Answer 11

No absolutely not! First off, it is none of your business. It is your sister's life, not yours. Who dubbed you the "sex, tell the parents, police????" Get over it. Ignore it. Let it go. Live your own life and leave your sister alone.