Should i confess??? What should i do???

Question

Im a girl who in 6 grade im 12 and i have some problems. This is something that worry me for 2 days. I had done something rilly bad i took $20 from my moms purse so i could buy something at the store with my friends. i didnt spend it all so when i get home i hid it in my sister room cos my mom know we spend our allowance already. She was flipping out looking for it and she ask me and i say i didnt do it so when she check my lil sisters room she found it and Julie got a really bad spanking from her. I felt bad for my sister but i was scared 2 tell the truth so i didnt say anything. now i feel bad and i told my best friend and we prayed and she think i should tell but im still scared my mom would kill me and she be so mad!! I feel bad though what should i do???? I know it be better to tell but i dont want to get punished either!! What would i even say 2 her?? help please!!!!!!

im scared to that shed spank me hard because my sister got one! And sad to because she didnt believe julie and it all is my fault!

Answer 1

Confess. Your sister can get in big trouble and your mom might never trust her again. Your commiting two sins. One by lying and the other by stealing. Trust me if you tell you will feel a lot better and your sister will be happier. It's not fair if you blame her. Say mom I took the 20 dollars it wasnt my sister.

Answer 2

Well obviously the guilt is getting to you. I hope you do see this is why you shouldn't steal in the first place - look how many people you have hurt!! Your mother because her hard earned money is gone, and now she realizes that one of her girls is a thief. Your sister because she got YOUR spanking, and when you do confess, she will realize that you let her take the fall for you - which you will have to spend time proving to her that you feel guilty and will make it up to her. And yourself, because you are seeing the damaging effects of your stealing and lying.

Now is the time you will learn that you have to come clean and take responsibility for your actions. Think about it - do you want your mother to go on thinking that she can't trust her girls? Do you want her to feel uncomfortable in her own home? Also think about what you are running from - a spanking. Yes it hurts for a while but the damage you have caused hurts so much more than a few swipes on the bottom. You must repent and take your punishment, and not only that, I hope you learn from this and do whatever you can to prove to your mom that you can be trustworthy and prove to your sister that you love her and will never again make her take blame that belongs to you.

Good luck - stop stealing!!

Answer 3

Fess up, take the spanking now and be done with it. In the end you'll be glad you did. Look your not a "bad" kid, but you made a mistake. If I were you, I'd want this off my chest. Yes even if that means a spanking. Ask your mom if you two can have a talk in privet. Explain what you did, and that you know, and are ready for what she has to do. Trust me, it's the best way, if she somehow finds out later, you really will be in trouble. Get this off your chest. At least then you can apologies to your sister, this all will be forgiven in time.

Answer 4

I think you already know the answer in your heart. You should tell your mother the truth.

You know your mother won't "kill" you like you said. She may spank you or punish you in some other way but then the issue will be settled. Right now you are feeling guilty and that is worse than any spanking.

You also owe your little sister a big apology and should probably offer to do something for her - - maybe do her chores for a few weeks.

You should also find a way to pay your mother back for the money you did spend.

Answer 5

I did the same thing to my sister when I was younger. I felt horrible because she was the one who got punished when it was my fault. You do need to confess you took the money. Lying about it will make you feel regret forever. I know your scared. It will pass. First tell your sister and then tell your mom. The part about the money isn't the bad part. It's the fact that you lied and blamed it on your sister. Now, and I know you won't like it, but your mother needs to literally pull your pants down and give you a spanking. Do you think you deserve it? I beleive so. Just get it over with instead of dwelling on it.

Answer 6

Tell your mom the truth, because ultimately this will come out and could make the situation that much worst. That your sister did not say anything to your mom says a great deal about her character and so now you need to decide on the next responsible and mature step.

Yes, there will probably be fallout from you telling your mom the truth but you obviously already feel guilty and so by keeping this to yourself, will make you feel worst and will eventually manifest itself in your behaviour. More than likely your mom will call you out on this anyway so better for you to try and pre-empt any negative scenario as much as possible. You stepping up and accepting responsibility will dictate alot of what comes next.

Answer 7

Wow, first off i amsorry to hear that you get spankings, especially at your age. But I think that you already know the answer to your question, you need to tell your mom and sister. I think you should tell your sister first, and think of something nice you can do to try and make up for it. And then tell your mom as well. it will probably be better for your sister to hear it from you than your mom. your mom will get over it, your a kid and this isn't the worst thing that's gonna happen. And your sis will eventually too, even though she might say she won't. I have a sister that is 14 months younger than me, lots of stuff like this happened between us, and were fine now that i am 19 and she is 18 :) good luck sweetie!!

Answer 8

Your mom won't kill you...You need to take responsibility for what u did. Yeah, I'm sure you'll get punished but you deserve it. Your only 12. There will be a lot of things in your life that u are unsure of, but trust me honey, Honesty is your best policy. Even if you get away with lying to the world, You still know in your heart your wrong. Tell your mother you took the 20 bucks and apoligize to your sister. Good Luck!

Answer 9

Nothing worse than taking the blame for someone elses wrong. Do tell your mom the truth and tell your sister you are very sorry. Try to make it up to her. Help her with something perhaps. Show her you truely are sorry. You need to face up for the deed you did and it is hard (scary at times even), but you will be a better person in your parents and sisters eyes in the long run (even if they do get mad, they still do love you).

Answer 10

You should tell the truth and accept the consequences. You will feel better about the kind of person you are if you do it.

Also, remember how you feel right now, so next time you are tempted to do something you know you shouldn't, you will remember this awful feeling, and make better decisions in the future.

You may also want to apologize to your sister since she was punished because of something you did.

Growing up is hard, but these lessons will carry you far in life.
Good luck.