On a day other than Valentine's Day, that is...I'm not very fond of Valentine's Day. I think it's pointless (although it's special) it's only one day a year to show love, it's not good enough, we should do so everyday. So, I don't want to show my affection today it's so cliché.
I met this guy, he's smart, funny and just a great person and I've never met guy like this. We share mostly the same mentality, and from what I picked up, there was an attraction, maybe not a extra strong physical one maybe just an average physical one but a great connection intellectually.
How do I show him I like him more without embarrassing myself and keeping a friend in him?
I've showed guys I like them before but this is just a different level I'm not used to! He's so worthwhile.
Suggestions?
2007-02-14 06:02:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
text him asking him would he like to go out in town tonight with you
2007-02-14 06:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by blue1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter.
I told my man how I felt about him in a letter because sometimes I find it hard to make the words come out right when I get around him. When I have time to think about how much I care for this man; it escapes into the paper. Once I do that, I take the paper and read it to myself. Then when I get the chance, I tell him when we have a private moment. Then he smiles and turns away from me. Then I smile.
Put your honest feelings in there. It is great that you want a friendship and a man in him-many people cannot realize that you cannot have a lover without a best friend in a man or woman first.
Just be honest and be yourself. I have a feeling he is not saying anything because he is waiting on you to make the move so when he does, he can know it's ok.
2007-02-22 09:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touch him a little - no I don't mean grope, I mean touch his elbow, neck, back or whatever else - brush non-existent stains from his face. Go to the movies, share a large popcorn between you instead of getting a small one each. Link arms with him, or hold his hand when crossing the street. Some of us can be pretty dense - you have to re-inforce the message - repeatedly. Make the touch last just a half-second too long.
Remember - boys are more shy than most girls think, and there is no such thing as an accidental touch.
(there is also no such thing as an accidental flash, so stay demure).
2007-02-14 14:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should show your love everyday or every chance you get. Not just on Valentine's.You can do extra special things for him. See what he likes. For example, if it's a favorite book, then you both can get cozy and read together. If he likes a favorite character or sports team, you can buy him those items and make a day of events out of it. Spending time with him will also let him know how much you care. Good luck.
2007-02-22 13:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embarrassing shall not be a good word while you are trying to show a a feeling. If the feeling is right, then let it go and make sure that it is an approval that shows you believe in your feelings. Embarrassing occurs just when you do something that a human being never does! Show your courage and purity of mind
2007-02-14 14:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kaveh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if the 2 of you... are very fond of each other. If you know he is interested in you, then just have a private talk with him. You don't exactly have to come out and say "Gosh, I really like you; more than just friends", but hear his side of the story! Let him tell you first... so you'll have some feed-back. But if you insist on letting him know, break it down for him!
Good Luck
2007-02-14 14:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a bit tricky as u don't want to lose the friendship if things don't work out in a relationship. go out with him for a drink or something and talk. see how he behaves with u. show him that u like him and see how he reacts. if he just ignores u, ask him. i would. be bold and ask him how he feels towards u. if he says 'just friends' then just say ok, i just needed to know.
its better to ask and be clear on how things are than to always be wondering what he feels.
2007-02-14 18:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chat and suggest a drink and see where it goes from there,just say hey I enjoy your company and go from there if he does not want to take it further you have lost nothing .You sound like a very wise person you should have no trouble saying just the sort of things you have said here Good Luck x
2007-02-21 11:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by lucy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys should go some place just the two of you and tell him. Maybe to a bar. Get a couple of drinks in you to the courage to tell him. Tell him. Or you may miss your opportunity. Don't regret not telling him.
2007-02-14 14:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just use words and talk to him.
i'm very impressed that you want to avoid the cliche of Valentines Day. Just be open and honest with him. No games, no cheese, just speak from the heart.
2007-02-14 14:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get to know him better and respect yourself,a real man respects a woman who isn't quick to lossen her buttons(same goes to man) a man who is worthwhile is one that you should respect,cherish and understand not just to get all hot with.nly when you've reach the next level then you decide wether you're both comfortable and ready.
2007-02-14 14:11:27 · answer #11 · answered by nadienia864 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋