2007-02-14 05:57:42 · 25 answers · asked by Sasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's wrong (especially between two consenting adults who use protection), I think it's more a matter of personal choice. Personally when I was single I would not sleep with someone on the first date, but I would not condemn someone who chooses to do so. As long as people are responsible and do not regret there choices who am I to judge?
2007-02-14 06:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by luvbean_xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it's wrong? Ummmm sexually repressed women??? Who will at the first chance they get put down their own fellow women and call them sluts, easy, whores....yeah. Or the male chauvinist who lives by that double standard.
Sweetheart there is nothing wrong with it. If you are secure with your sexuality and are making your decision clear minded and are an adult and the person you are doing this with is the same than who gives a rats ***. So many people will try and hold you to "their" standard of living and their so called values, but best believe those people have skeletons in their closets. As I've lived life you will never please all the people all of the time. Go with your heart and if you feel good about it then you have done nothing wrong!
2007-02-14 14:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by devilishdame1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to have sex on your first date, whoever told you that, LIED! Women having sex on the first date is are only frowned upon by men because they would consider women "easy." I say if you want to have sex, have sex...You're a grown woman, why should anyone be able to tell you what to do? They shouldn't. And if you're anything like me, you'll do what you want and not care what other people think, especially when it comes to your personal life. After all, whose business is it anyway that you have sex on the first date besides yours? No ones! Have fun and get your freak on!
2007-02-14 14:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR its not wrong only for women to have sex on the firt date but for both, if you go out with a person just to have fun ok its not a big deal but if its something else its better to know the person better because you will always the most beautifull part of the person first but then when you will get to be used to each other this where the real person you will discover and beleive me it will be painfull
2007-02-14 14:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by pandah_68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be honestly, if u had sex on the first date then you have some issues to deal with because it seem like you really want to have sex and cant wait for it OR the guy on the first date try to have sex with you then slap him then make him leave or something cuz girls would not liek to have sex on the first date and you would regreted it if you did but i dont know its me
2007-02-14 14:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a woman can become pregnant and a man can't. So while a man can have carefree sex and not be burdened, a woman takes the risk of carrying the heaviest burden in life from having "casual sex".
2007-02-14 14:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by honeygirlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...its a simple as can be...a guy needs to know something other than sex with a girl to make a connection...if you go giving it up right away...then your only special thing is sex...so you get put into the hook-up rolledex and there is really no way out, unless you got madd game...
so unless you just want to get laid, your best off keeping the 'vag' out of the picture til you get some sort of feeling that he enjoys your company, not just your organs...
2007-02-14 14:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by boosted 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong, expecially if I didnt even have to pay for dinner the first time around. Because after that, im invisible to ya hahahhaha hit and run baby.
2007-02-14 14:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it makes her look like a slut, i personally like to work a bit hard for what i want or else evrything will come easily, and if evrything comes easyly, what is the worth of it? its worth nothing i just think if u wait a bit longer and not rush it then it will be worth the wait but dont wait too long or else the guy aint gna b botherd wit u anymore
2007-02-14 14:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because that is just wrong.... sex it meant to be shared with someone who you know and trust... you should not just give yourself away on the first date. It shows you do not really respect yourself. Also you do not even know if you will see the guy again.
2007-02-14 14:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋