Ok we wen't to his parents house for the first time, and it was my first time meeting his little sister which is 9, and she wanted to chill with me and pant my nails and stuff like that so i hung out with her and a couple of her other friends in their bedroom while my boyfriend that i'm with all the time was in the living room with his parents. I thought he'd be glad i was chilling with his sister but he got mad. He said that i got mad when he wanted to play the game with my little brother but it's not like it was his first time meeting my brother plus he only had a few minutes to spend with me bacause he was about to go to work. He said that it's not fair that i can get mad at him but he can't get mad at me for doing the same thing but that's totally different. Was i wrong and why. Should i say sorry
2007-02-14 05:56:19 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy_Cheergrl69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sound childish. Just tell him you were trying to get to know his little sister which you thought was the whole point of you going to his parents house, so you could meet and get to know his family. On the other hand it's the same situation he was in with your little brother. You get him everyday, why not let him hang out with you lil bro for a few minutes. The whole dating thing goes much better when the families like the possible new addition to the family. I wouldn't really apologize, but don't expect one to him. Just calmly explain to him that you were trying to get to know his sister like he does your brother when the play games. If he wanted to spend time with you alone he shouldn't have taken you to his parents house. If little things like this become an issue, I'd hate to see what would happen when something serious happens.
2007-02-14 06:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Just D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While it is wonderful that you both seem to get along with one an others family very well, you both should make the effort to spend time as a group and not just with one or the other. Sounds to me like you both should apologize to each other. You got mad at him for spending time with your little brother when you wanted his attention and in return he gets mad at you for spending time with his little sister. This is a tit for tat situation. Both of you should say your sorry and find a way that you can spend time with the family without upsetting each other.
2007-02-14 06:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were NOT wrong. They sound like 2 different situations. He should be happy you were bonding with his sister and not get jealous. That's pretty pathetic of him.
2007-02-14 06:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by tiffantre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you both need to not get so mad about little things like that..you didnt go wrong so i wouldnt say sorry..if he likes you enough he'll say hes sorry for acting childish.
2007-02-14 06:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by love♥shopping=] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well too me it doesen't really matter who is wrong, just apologize and try to let him cool off. That is if you really love the guy chances are he'll be happy you apologized if you give him a 2nd chance.
2007-02-14 06:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by kathmrc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
discuss the real issue about sharing time together and how to deal with anger or the prevention of it.
2007-02-14 06:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by tina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i see your point that you were just trying to bond with his sister but remember that life is too short to stay angry at people just tell him that you were trying to get along with his family and make up!!!
2007-02-14 06:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no don't say sorry cuz he was acting like a selfish little child
2007-02-14 06:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You were wrong
2007-02-14 06:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋