WHAT IS A RELAXED ATTRACTIVE APPROACH?????
2007-02-14 05:54:37 · 17 answers · asked by david w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Buy the young lady (and her friends) a drink. Make sure the bartender points you out and move on. If she likes what she see's she will approach you. If she doesn't come to you don't fret wait awhile and go to her and just say "Hi" don't drool over her be confident about yourself. GIVE HER SPACE, most women don't like when you hang around like a stalker. Only time will tell if you hit a homerun. ENJOY yourself, don't play games. She will let you know where you stand b-4 the night is through.
2007-02-14 06:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Beano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case, I know for a fact that I attract allot of men w the way I dance. I do not like to give my name out to guys I meet at a club cause ther mostly looking 4 a ***. So if I meet u at a club & u ask 4 my name I wont give it to u but if u make me laugh & we get allong great towards the end of the night then I'll ask 4 ur # but will not give u mine. I am ver y celective when it come to poepl I meet.
I'd say just b nice. If u have never been to the club ask her if she's been there b 4. what day & what day is better...Most important B CONFIDENT.
2007-02-14 13:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One thing that i do is simple. BE YOUR SELF!!!
don't over do it i be going out a lot this past weekend and i made a lot of friends that's the key thing to do. When you do go out don't think about trying to get her number or to get into her panties. Cuz that's the first thing there thinking when you walk up to them you have to show them that that's not what your looking for. Your here to have fun meet new people and make friends who knows you could end up getting someones number. But after that its your business what you want to do with her. with in this week got 12 numbers that's a lot for me to even keep up and I'm a good guy I'm not a dick but that's all to it one step at a time. Take it slow
talk about anything women love to talk but they hate small talk. Good luck
2007-02-14 14:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by max10152002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't like it when guys approach them with cheesy lines knowing they want to do them. Simply get next to a woman, logistically, then look at her quickly. If she looks back at you, without that snotty look, then say you hate it when guys feed beautiful women cheesy lines and make it hard for nice guys like you. All you are looking for is a friend at this time. Women will usually talk to you if they don't feel like they are being hit on. The friends angle always works, trust me!! Once you are friends and she gets to know you, you guys will start dating if she likes what she hears and feels while hanging out or talking with you.
2007-02-14 14:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by insidehomerun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually what up and say hi. We don't want crazy pickup lines or plots. Make a comment about the party or whats going on in the room and you will be able to tell if she wants to talk to you. If she does a convo will easily start.
2007-02-14 14:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Shouldbedoinghomework 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can start walking towards her slowly and when you make it close to her you can have a friend in front of you and start talking, that will get her attention. then glance at her, but make it notacible and you can(depending on her personality) say 'hello, have I met you before' let her answer. then say you look familiar. that can start the conversation. during that don't offer a drink just get her one " I want a taquila and whatever she wants you can put it on me bill"... like that you can go on your own way
2007-02-22 13:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jacquie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying hello always worked for me. It's amazing how such a simple word can open so many doors
2007-02-22 13:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabe its my look, or maybe its the line...but i have always had success with women, especially once they have had a drink or two or fifteen...when i approach them in a friendly happy manner...and make a comment about something that looks like they spent a lot of time on...whether its their hair, or a special bracelet they are wearing...if it looks like they really like, and you like it too...man, your already half way to your bedroom...but whatever you do...dont say something about them being hot or sexy or anything else like that...you have to come on like your plain ol' interested in something other than their apperance
2007-02-14 14:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by boosted 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i thought i was at a bar not a photo shoot. you look like u belong on the cover of a nice mag.not the ones where they all look fake
2007-02-14 14:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by brandy n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Hey, what do you think of this place?"That can start a convo.
2007-02-22 13:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋