this girl is for themost part a great mom,weve had no fights,we had 2.5 months of bliss.she tells me that anyone that has ever come in to her life runs from her. she is pushing me away,as she runs. she tells me ive me" ive never been treated as good as you treat me, ive never felt safer,she could not imagine being with out me"but now right after she tells me to just go,cause she dont want me to go thru this. i want to help her but im in over my head..until now shes been the girl of my dreams, and now i feel if i leave,then im like everyone else. i dont wanna leave her but then again this is what shes telling me to do........
2007-02-14 05:52:44 · 4 answers · asked by tornado 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sounds like she needs professional help. There seems to be a lot of contradictions in your question.
2007-02-14 05:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds bittersweet. If you really love and care for her stick around. She obviously has a torid past with relationships leaving her. I would stick it out a little longer (2.5 months is not that long) and try to comfort her. If nothing improves, you may not have a choice. You are a person too. Remember that. Good luck!
2007-02-14 05:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shes afraid of later on hurting you, maybe she could just never be committed to someone (really)....shes afraid....and she most likely thinks sooo much about so many things that you might ask her for ex: (honey what are you thinking, and she will say nothing right)
so shes just afraid, and yes im sure she loves you so much but doesnt want to hurt you later on due to the fact that SHE may be the one having the problem... she may be a thinker like me.....i know this is exactly of how i would feel and i would be scared to make another commitement. and she doesnt want you to get to attached to her..........it all may be that she may have the problem,... but you know what she will cry for you when if you decide to take off because she loves you. she just has her own problem and she cant express herself well....
hope this helps, if you need to talk here is my e-mail, heartbreakersrp@yahoo.com my names serina
2007-02-14 06:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by JUSTAGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her stay with her and help her x
2007-02-14 11:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Madness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋