iv been going out with this guy for little over a week now, and i know that in the future he's gunna wanna go farther. and im sure hes gunna expect me to be able to do "things" for him. and im not that experienced. he's not a virgin and what if im not what he expects? and idk how to make him "happy"....
2007-02-14 05:29:45 · 10 answers · asked by truesayokay9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start slow. Use your hand at first. Really pay attention to what he likes and what turns him on. It is ok to ask him what he likes and how to get him going. He will appreciate that. Then go ahead and use your mouth later on, paying special attention to what you learned turned him on earlier.
Or, if you are of drinking age or are drinking, just get drunk and let yourself go and you will find that you had the talent to make him happy all along.
2007-02-14 05:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly theres nothing hotter on both ends than having your guy teach you how to do everything he likes.
Don't worry about it, don't feel pressured into doing anything until your absolutely ready. If he likes you he'll understand taking things slowely and waiting for the right moment.
when that moment comes, ask him exactly how he likes things done, ask him to guide you. Chances are, he'll find that more than arousing.
2007-02-14 13:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys wack off. WACK OFF. How much worse could you do than that.
But if you're gonna do it with someone for the first time then you should wait a while and find somebody that you are close enough to so that you don't have to worry so much abou it.
2007-02-14 13:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Robert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about what you want and what makes you happy? He may expect things, but you truly need to be ready to give them, freely and without feelings of pressure and guilty expectations. Sex and its parts are not an obligation.
Sounds trite I know, but it's YOUR life, YOUR body, and YOUR emotions that need to count.
2007-02-14 13:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Duchess of Funk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER....and I mean NEVER "give" because he expects it or wants it. it's YOUR body and he has NO RIGHT to expect sex. DO NOT feel guilty for saying no. for heavens sake!!!!! he's not worth it if it's about sex. if it is, he has NO respect for you!!!
ask yourself...where will he be 8 months from now when your pregnant or have an STD????? GONE...that's where.
I am not assuming that you are of legal age or not..it has nothing to do with that..it has to do with respecting yourself.
2007-02-14 13:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by mom tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll do fine, you will be o.k. don't let him pressure you into anything you don't want to do. The first with anything is always awkward, and confusing. Don't worry about it's another one of life's great learning processes
2007-02-14 13:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will love you more for not having experience,the fun is going to be you letting him be the teacher,he'll enjoy that more than anything.
2007-02-14 13:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by ojitosllorando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to worry about that.. nobody is a PRO at sex.. so what if he is experienced he should love you for who you are not what you do or how you do it
2007-02-14 13:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your not comfortable doin "favors" for him then dont do it and dont do it just cause he might break up with u if you dont, if he does break up with u for it than he's an @$$hole and it means he only wanted one thing
2007-02-14 13:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by PAISA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and let him teach you. Guys like to do this.
2007-02-14 13:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋