A week and a day ago my boyfriend went back to his home town, to help his mother out and he was suposed to come back this week. But now he's going to go check out a place in Utah. It was our plan for him to come back and move in with me. but now he wants me to move with him. Iam not sure b/c we like each other alot and it's what my mom did when she was my age but i just don't see if we care about each other why should location matter? Now iam leaning towards yes, but should i drop everything to be with him? would you?
2007-02-14 05:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by Big Red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it. you can always leave if you don't like it. if you don't go you will always wonder..... what if?!
2007-02-14 05:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by elliemay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been with my girlfriend for a little over two years and we have been best friends since Junior High. We are both 19, I don't know how old you are or how far along in college you are but, putting myself in your position because she is from LA, I can't imagine moving somewhere for her let alone living with her. That to me, is basically marriage. If you are ready to drop your full contact with friends and your current world, then yes you should. I personally feel that the time will come when you're ready and there will be no questions.
2007-02-14 13:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Spiderdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you're dropping everything for him, then it might not be the solution.
Though I did it (not for my lover but) to be with my lover!
I really loved him and I made all the move from France to California, and that's a long way, believe me!
I'm far from my family, but he's my family now, and I made new friends and we're in love and everything is just fine.
You just have to want it and not do it for him!
2007-02-14 13:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've made big moves twice to be with "the one" ... My experiences were both BIG mistakes. I think it's a warning sign already that he's flip flopping on this and trying to be the one to "make the rules" instead of discussing it, comprimising, etc.
I think your move would be a mistake. I say don't do it, let him move to you if he wants.
2007-02-14 13:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "like him alot"??? Honey, don't move in with someone unless you love him and know that you're probably going to make a life-time commitment.
2007-02-14 13:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is just my opinion. i think that if really love him that much then you guys would be thinking about marriage and if not then you dont need to live together anyway. thats my opinion. but if you really love him and its not affecting what you're doing with your life then go for it.
2007-02-14 13:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you love eachother. caring and liking is not enough to start your life over in a new place
2007-02-14 13:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by AMS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋