Mixed signals?

Question

Mixed Signals?
Hey im currently an exchange student in austria and i have a question. Im in highschool here and normally dont have these problems but here it goes. there is a girl ive been talking to and im very into her. however she is a year older but i think she is into measwell but im kinda getting mixed signals. there are no communication problems either in english or german so thats not a problem but i just want to know if she is into me. there is some flirting going on and were starting to talk alot more but im also a little shy at times, so are there anywas to find out if she likes me or is it just for fun? thanks

Answer 1

I hate mixed signals. Personally, I've learned to be a more straight forward kind of person. I realize that you're a shy person, as you stated above, but, I'd try to gain the strength to come out and ask her, what exactly is going on between us? and where do you see this going if we were to try and step in up a knotch. Just tell her how you feel straight up. The worst thing she could say is, I'm not interested, or I am. Either or, life goes on and what's meant to be will be. Take care, God is love!

-Tiff

Answer 2

Dude you haven't told us what the mixed signals are, so we can't help you. Amend your question with what they are I would suggest.

Without knowing anything, I would say, just escalate things a little bit at a time and see if she jumps with you. Eg start with little things bigger than what you have been doing. If you have been hanging out in the dorm, see if she will come with you to get a coffee. If she does, then see if she will come with you to get a drink at the pub. etc etc

You are in college. This is a rare time in life when girls are very open and all sorts of strategies work, they are not wise like older girls and choosy like girls looking for husbands. You can write her love notes, poetry etc and because its college its not so corny as in the real world. You can try crazy s h i t.

But dude, what are you doing? You are on exchange!!! No one knows you!! When I was on exchange I was after every hot girl on campus with no shame, because no one knew me, and I would be going home later

Keep her as a possibility, and get BUSY my man. Also if she sees you even hanging with another girl, and IF she likes you, she will at that point definitely show it very clearly.

Answer 3

Talk to her. If you're concerned about getting mixed signals, then there's no reason to be covert about the matter. You don't have to corner her or anything, but don't just sit back and wait for things to develop. You can simply and sweetly ask her if she would be interested in hanging out with you sometime, or if she's interested in you the way you are in her.

Buena suerte!

Answer 4

Are you two both spend a lot of time 2gether? If yea then she might be into you. try and find out if she likes someone else if not then go for it ask her out at your time. when ever you are ready ask her out. If you both love each other, the age don't matter. Give her something special on this day! On Valentines.

Good Luck!

Answer 5

hey buddy, welcome to america, thats how american women are...but if its more positive than negative and you have the balls to do it..just ask her out...what have you got to loose, there are plenty of other women to talk and flirt with if things dont go right...plus if you pdont tabckle the situation right now whiole its hot, she might throw you into the 'friends' pile and you'll never have a chance!

Answer 6

I would wait and see what happens. I would not pursue this girl.

Answer 7

It's not that hard to get if someone is really into you. . .Just the way they talk they way they look,gives them away.