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For a month while she was engaged she would flirt with me, saying she thinks I'm cute, I ask her out and she turns me down.This was before I knew she was taken.Then her fiancee breaks up with her and yesterday I heard that she wanted me to ask her out from a friend who she told. I ask her out again and she said not right now and not to get my hopes up. she said she wants to be friends for now . what do I do now?

2007-02-14 05:21:47 · 23 answers · asked by fred t 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

no, she will be depressed, it increases ur risk of being duped out of depression, which will onky make her feel worse and make u messed up.

2007-02-14 05:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Take her at her word and go away.

Find someone else and ask that girl out. Be happy.

There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who is in love. Or, at least in deep like.

And, women flirt. I know that most men think a woman wants them if she as much as looks at him for a second too long but it isn't so and no amount of reading between the lines will make it so. You are just finding out that she's a flirt, it comes naturally to her, and now she's sad and she has told you to go away as nicely as she can in her current state.

2007-02-14 05:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0 0

I'll be very careful about someone that is flirting with me and engage to someone else. How will you feel if after dating her for a while you notice She is flirting with another guy? It seems to me she is not define about what she wants and this maybe end hurting you. I'm not saying don't keep pursuing her, just be careful and put her under the microscope and see how does she acts around different circles of people. I don't wanna be mean, but I hate people that feels that is right to break someone Else's heart. Good Luck!.

2016-05-23 22:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0 0

You do exactly what she asks of you just be her friend.as the saying goes you always want what you think you cant have so play it cool with her and don't be too pushy.phone her once or twice a week to see how she is doing and ask her out for lunch sometimes-not dinner as that makes it less friend like.be funny,charming and sympathetic to all that is going on in her life and if there is a spark of lust from her part it will soon turn into a flame.good luck i hope it all works out for you.

2007-02-14 05:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You shouldn't date for at least 9 months to a year after a brake up. According to my psyc class. Otherwise you are getting over a brakeup with another person which is not cool. Also if she was flirting with you while with this other guy don't you think that while she's with you she will be flirting with whoever she seems to like at the moment.

2007-02-14 05:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think that it is fair that she wants to be friends with you after just breaking up with a boyfriend and you have to respect her for that. She may need time to play the field or recuperate from her past relationship. It is too soon after a breakup to find out where she is really coming from. Do not put any pressure on her, relax and just be a friend, it may develop into more, it may not ,only time will tell.

2007-02-14 05:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0 0

Let her get over the lost of her fiancee first before you start dating her.

2007-02-14 05:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Seeanna 5 · 0 0

just be friends now untill she feels more comfortable with you. show her that she can trust you and that you will be there for her.soon she'll want to be with you more and she'll want to be more than friends. in this kind of situation it'll be a gradual process; dont seem to eager and it'll work out much better

2007-02-14 05:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Find someone else. She obviously is very immature and likes playing games. If you have to play games to be in a relationship then it can never be true love.

2007-02-14 05:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by be_fruitfulandmultiply 2 · 0 0

She said no once she will say it again. Find someone else. So many women out there dont get hung up on one.

2007-02-14 06:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0 0

Be friends you fool. The best relationships start out as friendships.

2007-02-14 05:25:42 · answer #11 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0 0

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