Ok me and this lady has a realationship I really don't love her but she's in love with me but if I don't get her anything she's going to all guilt tripish on me so plz help me out
2007-02-14 05:20:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't love her then why does it matter? Sounds to me like you are using her for sex. Why don't you do her a favor and break up with her and quit leading her on!
Karen your answers always crack me up!!!
2007-02-14 05:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a couple of yellow roses. Do not get red or white; white is for purity and red is love. I could never be in a relationship where someone does not love me back. Too much heartache. Good luck and if you really don't love her, leave her go. She needs to find someone that truly loves her.
2007-02-14 05:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't love her getting her a gift will probably make her think that you have feelings for her.
I don't think you want to lead her on... do you ???
But if you insist on getting her something...
I don't know.... how about a box of her favorite chocolates or a teddy bear or a CD/DVD (get her a gift that you would get your friends)
Don't do flowers or Wine because women read too much into that.
2007-02-14 05:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by M.O. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're under no obligation and I certainly wouldn't get someone a gift in this situation as that would just be leading her on.
Wish her a happy valentine's day verbally and let that be it. Don't encourage her emotions when you don't reciprocate them, that would be more cruel than not getting a gift.
2007-02-14 05:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try getting her something impersonal, like cigarettes if she smokes or batteries for her TV remote. This way, you did buy her something, but it also says that you aren't in love with her. Be careful though, if she loves you and you don't, you should really tell her now before you get in deeper.
2007-02-14 05:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by insidehomerun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about the gift of a little honesty? Stop playing her and using her. Let her know that you don't love her and stop leading her on!!
2007-02-14 05:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gift Certificate...That way anything she pics..is truely from her self and not you and you can't get mixed mushy singles from it..
if you give her a stuffed animal and its pink or red ..she will interrupt the color as you do love her..
Just make it something general..
OOh how about to get her nails done?
2007-02-14 05:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get her a pair of Red "Valentine" gloves with matching ear muffs. I know a guy who actually did this to someone at Christmas. It seemed to work...hehehe
2007-02-14 05:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by extspecialbt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get some white roses!! White roses mean just that i like you but I'm not in love with you. More of a just be friends and enjoy your Valenti's day thats it
2007-02-14 05:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a coupon for a free personal ad in the paper
2007-02-14 05:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by AMS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋