haha... funny question. But, i do know what i like. Do you think i could maybe teach my "guy friend" how to please me the "right" way? what would be the right way of doing that? Do guys like to be bossed around? ...just asking...
2007-02-14 05:14:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
It's only logical that you know how to please yourself, since you're tuned with your own body. And yes, you should tell your boyfriend what you like and how you like it done. How else will he know the way to orgasmville, if you don't give him the road map. Make time to lay him down, and show him what turns you on. At the same time, ask him what are his likes and dislikes. The important thing is not to go "eeewww!!!" EVER!!! Take into consideration what he is expressing to you before you judge, and ask him to do the same. It may take a few sessions before you two get it just right, but it'll be worth it.
2007-02-14 05:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by somatek 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time to sound REALLY cheesey, but....
You should teach him! And he should teach you. Even bad sex is good, but its better when you communicate and show eachother what you like. Have him watch you and when he does things, tell him where to move to or how to do it (faster, slower, don't push as hard, whatever) and when he does something that feels good, encourage him to keep going.
Its not bossing him around, its teaching him and while some guys might take offense to it, they should know that every woman is different and what worked for their last gf, won't work for you.
2007-02-14 13:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may think that this sounds a bit strange but next time you are "pleasuring" yourself ask him to watch. You can vocalise how much you enjoy it when you touch here, there etc and then ask him if he would like to take over. It even helps if you watch him doing it to himself also.
I have a few girlfriends who have had this problem and I told them to be on top of their man during sex and touch themselves-
after doing this they each had their first orgasms from sex, and their men were happy because the sex they were providing still helped the girls out along the way.
2007-02-14 17:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys dont mind to be bosses around.. I had to teach my boyfriend how to please me the right way.. He didnt mind that i moved his hand where i wanted it.. Good luck
2007-02-14 15:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said you know how to give yourself an orgasm why not teach him how im sure he would like to know how to please you if not tell him the g-spot is 3cm on the top wall of the clitoris
2007-02-20 16:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by wildfire157 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, i know what you mean, Ive darn near forgotten about my boyfriend. I'm having a good time by myself. check out toysforpleasure.com---cheap
2007-02-22 03:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by krittlette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let a rael man show him how to do it make him watsh some rated R tapes so he could learn
2007-02-21 14:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by naomi p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him watch you do it yourself. Then try to guide him when he's doing it to you and make sure you let him know when he's doing it right (if u know what i mean).
2007-02-14 20:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by ihateidiots 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your guy friend or boy friend?? anyway....girl, teach him. ! lol take his hand and show him the way you like it...he wont be hurt..when guys are with a girl they really really want to please them..so thats all he wants to do so show him..
2007-02-14 13:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by LoVeLy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you let him know. If you never let him know, he won't ever do it right.
2007-02-14 16:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋