Here's my story. I've dated this girl for over 6 months. She recently went overseas to visit friends and family. I called her one day and she was stressed out with her aunt. When she picked up the phone, there was a guy in the background who asked "who is that?" and she replied jon. I pretended that I didn't hear it and continued with hearing her problems. Five minutes later, I ask her, who are you with? And she lied and said no one. It took about another 5 minutes for her to tell the truth and that she was with her old classmate Sean. I got angry and told her to buy a phone card and give me a call. 15 minutes later, I call again, very angry and ask her where the phone card is. She said that she will go buy it soon and that they are leaving soon to go back home. To make a long story short, I called several times after and she hasn't picked up my calls. I even tried texting her and writing her e-amils. I used my friends phone to call her once and she hung up when she heard me.
2007-02-14 05:12:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before she left to overseas, she told me how much she loved me, blah blaah blah. Now things have turned out like this. I'm not sure what to think anymore. She told me that her relationship with her classmate is just friends and nothing else. I trust her words. Ladies, what's going on in her head and what should I do?
2007-02-14 05:17:08 · update #1
One more thing, she told me the reason she lied was because she felt that I was getting jealous of her hanging out with her friends. I told her that I really didn't care if she hung out with a bunch of guys, but to lie about it would make her seem guilty.
I really like the gal and and am super worried as to why she isn't picking up my calls anymore. I stopped calling her as of yesterday (day 3).
2007-02-14 05:21:09 · update #2
In all honesty, you may just want to leave her alone. It sounds like she's not interested anymore. Which is okay, you shouldn't waste your time wanting someone who doesn't want you. That just means there's better out there for you
2007-02-14 05:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by 1petitelady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguments just in 4 months and a half? Hmm. I got that too with my boyfriend, the 5th or 6th month of knowing him, I did the same. We argued a lot, about stupid things, sometimes big (like when he cheated) I think if you wanna stop arguing, you should try not to get so attached to each other, like umm, give yourself space, and give her space too. Try to miss each other. Being cling-ed with each other all time increases arguments. Me and my boyfriend used to be the same, and then we started to communicate just a little less than before, and we miss each other and now the arguments are reduced big times. We just argue sometimes about little silly things that end at the same minute. Good luck.
2016-03-29 06:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she's a coward to not just come out and say its over between you. Do yourself a favor Buddy, dont call her anymore or receive any calls if she does call you and go get you a new girlfriend. This girl is cheating on you.
2007-02-14 05:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a good chance she may have been cheating on you. As a girl, we need lots of space to thing about our feelings (most of the time). One call a day is definately adequate and sometimes when in a fight, annoying.
Judging on her actions, she doesn't want to talk to you now. Probably because she did something wrong or things you did. Give her time to cool off and seriously consider how attatched you are to this relationship yourself.
2007-02-14 05:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by leaysa 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Eh Ya, sorry for that, know women will stand behind her solidly, try and see if you can find something doing to forget about her just for the moment, guess she will suddenly realised what she has made you pass through. dont give up
2007-02-14 05:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Child of God 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe her aunt is not the reason maybe she have found a new one. just ask her if she come back talk to her and ask why she did it to you. but dont get wrong with her as long as u dont know the real reason.
2007-02-14 05:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pissed her off because you acted as though you don't trust her. Take a hint...you called her your potential girlfriend. You are being presumptuous.
2007-02-14 05:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she gets home. If she's still interested you can work things out then. If she's not, move on.
2007-02-14 05:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Glennroid 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she isnt ready to talk to you... she doesnt need some jealous man on the phone yelling at her... let it go for now... if she wants to talk to you, she'll call you...
2007-02-14 05:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
move on
2007-02-14 05:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋