Ok, me and this girl have been together for a few weeks now, i met her at work and i really like her. The thing im stressing about is that this guy at work always gives her rides home and the hang out on random days. And i told her, "why when i ask you if you need a ride you say no thanks" she says that they're just good friends. And i tried finding out about her guy friend from other employees that have worked with him longer than i have and they say he's just a friend. I came straight out and told her that i dont play head games and if she has feelings for her friend then i wont bother her again, and she said that its hard for her to "trust me + herself" because she just got out of a relationship. Im worried that she might fall for him once me and her get serious because shes known him longer maybe. At the same time i know shes not the type of girl who would cheat, shes the quiet,cute,sweet,shy typeof girl. But im worried that her guy friend is trying to get close to her. What i do
2007-02-14 05:10:58 · 8 answers · asked by 619 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls can have guy friends just as guys can have female friends. People aren't supposed to shun all (other) members of the opposite sex once they begin dating.
2007-02-14 05:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say that 1-you should ask or get someone to ask the guy if there is something between them and 2-i was kinda in the same situation. me and this girl really liked each other and knew it, we just weren't going out. there were a couple of times that there were guys that she would give more attention to, and it really bothered me. what I did was i went to her and told her my concerns, and she felt bad that i felt that way. we've been going out for about a month now and are really happy together. all im trying to say is that if shes friends with another guy, dont worry about it too much. just make sure she knows so that you aren't getting worked up without anyone knowing. that leads to miscommunication and miscommunication leads to fights, etc.
2007-02-14 05:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only dated a girl for a few weeks and she's hanging around another guy, you don't know "shes not the type of girl who would cheat"-- you don't really know her very well at all.
She claims she can't trust anyone, including herself, and her guy friends bother you. So move on! It's only been a few weeks and it's not working.
2007-02-14 05:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its diverse if a woman thinks a guy is warm, then a overwhelm. If its a overwhelm, then its diverse. From the verbal substitute i study, she grew to become into attempting to make you jealous. you're no longer over reacting, yet she is being a (no offence) brat. If a woman thinks a guy is warm, its organic, even in a relationship yet whilst its a overwhelm, it may propose the girl is probably getting bored with you. Dont complication approximately it nonetheless, its a protracted distance relationship, those issues just about in no way exercising habitual. sturdy success!
2016-10-02 03:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, trust issues, jealousy and insecurity are running deep in your veins. She has the right to befriend whoever she wants. You need to trust her and not make an issue out of it, this will irritate her. Do not attempt to control this issue. If you last, this friends importance to her will dwindle away. Just relax and trust her.
2007-02-14 05:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by R♥bin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting worked up for nothing. If she says they are just friends. Then they are just friends.
If you show her you still feel insecure about their relationship, she will ditch you for this friend.
You and her have been going on for just few weeks. You have to give it time to establish your relationship. Soon, she will be hanging with you more and with this friend less.
2007-02-14 05:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't really worry about it see, if you can really picture your self with her in ten or twenty years from now then she must know your not jealous jest scared of losing her wait it out let her know you really care for her and shell see for her self jest don't make it obvious.
2007-02-14 05:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by rolando m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because they are good friends
2007-02-14 05:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by tinks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋