im 15 and my boyfriend is 16. weve been going out a little over a week now. and we've only madeout. he hasnt really t ouched me much and i want to take it really slow but idk how slow he wants to take it. i know we're hanging out today and since it's valentine's day idk if he'll want to go farther. we havn't talked about it but i dont wanna ruin anything by going too fast. im not sure how to talk to him about that. i feel totally comfortable with him but i just dont know whats going on inside his head.
2007-02-14 05:07:52 · 3 answers · asked by truesayokay9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unless you going to be more aggressive, let it run its course.
if you are comfy with how its going, enjoy the moments.
forget about what he is thinking about, maybe he is holding back because he wants to enjoy it at a slow pace or he is nervous about taking further steps.
you need to do the move if you want more than what you are getting, possible reponses are that he may pull back or go with the flow....love has risks, remember that
2007-02-14 05:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just talk to him, and tell him how you feel. you are so young, but at the same time you dont want to rush your first time with someone that you have only been dating for a week. i would wait, and make sure that he is clear about it. it sounds like you know what you are doin, but i know how boys can be... stuck with your gut, and wait.
2007-02-14 13:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by BigMaMa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it talking is the only way you can really tell what he wants!
2007-02-14 13:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by the yeti... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋