Ok I kinda have a boyfriend and he is really sweet, buthes kinda bad sometimes, He always gets in trouble, like he was smoking pot in the bathroom at school. Well there is this other boy hes not all tht cute but hes really sweet and were like the best of friends.. He asked m,e out on Valentines day and i said no because i liked the other boy. well now im regreting that i said no. Im very scared that if I go with the sweet boy then i will ruin our friendship..... So Help me what should I do?
2007-02-14 05:05:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said no... doesnt matters.... if he comes to you again... say yes. Meanwhile, ask the guy you like... if he says yes... good. If he says no... go back to the first guy who asked you out & ask him back (if it doesn't hurts your ego).
If you don't really feel easy... just ask the one you feel comfortable with & going out with whom would not ruin your friendship.
2007-02-14 05:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...think about this question if it was 5 years in the future...the "bad boy" may seem attractive, however.. he's headed down a road that you DO NOT want to go down and it will only cause you to be in trouble yourself. Ask yourself..."is he worth ruining MY life over?"
then look at the "nice guy" he's a good friend and more chances than not, he REALLY likes you more than you like him. Why not take the chance and see if it might be more than just friends on your part too? Either way, right now...his feelings are hurt and you may lose him as a friend because of it.
(it has happened too many times in my life to count.
best of luck to you and please leave the "bad boys" to the bad girls. you are worth more than that!
2007-02-14 13:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by mom tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋