Please could some one give me some advise on this problem i have got?

Question

i am going to look for a flat to get away from my abusive boyfriend
where we live is my flat
and it is in my name
but the thing is if i get the police or etc to get him out he could just go round he auntties who lives two minutes away from the flat
so does anyone thing i am think right
sorry about my grammer

Answer 1

why should you move? inform the police immidiately and get a court order that he cannot come 50yards near you. tell your friends to move in and change the lock. you cannot run forever. inform the police, inform your flat's association, take desperate mesures to get rid off him. you cn also get a brutal dog. inform your parents. immidiately take action.

Answer 2

Well, with the place being in your name, he has no right to stay there if you don't want him to. Do you have records of his abuse with the police? You should, otherwise, it will be harder for you. But since he's only your boyfriend, there is nothing holding you back. Assuming you can make it on your own, call the police, get a restraining order and maybe have a male friend stay over for a while. You may want to explain your situation to your landlord, and he may let you out of the lease. I wouldn't take the situation lightly. Get his abuse on record, and make your self disappear to him. Good luck, and God bless!

Answer 3

Get out of that relationship as fast as possible girl right now

pack your stuff and run do not walk before he really beats on you//

Then go to the phone book and find the public defenders office i

in your town or city and ask for help or find the nearest womens

aid offi ce. Do not let him back in your life. My dearyou can do

much better than him. There are a lotof cool studs out there

just waiting to look after you. Just be patient and look for them.

Lots of luck and enduring love on this Valentines Day.

JULIA G<

Answer 4

yes you are right,the law could make him leave, but what good have they done, if he hitting you,an you bring the law into it, thing could get worse, it best to find another place for from him,the get a restrain ,ortor on him , too when you do leave make sure you lock your door, an ,watch, for him are some one, he may sent to spy on you, also tell the law, what going on, good luck, an dont worried about how you wrote,, some just like putting other down

Answer 5

honey first of all you can still leave him, move out , get the house out of your name and sell it or something. Get an apartment you dont have to tell him that you are moving just leave, also take some self defense classes in case if he tries something. One more thing honey you need to take some grammar classes or something cause you really donot make any sense.

Answer 6

Have a serious talk about his abussive manner and see if there would be a change dont be in a rush to get rid of him the devil you know is better they say// you have not said he doesnt love you or does not show that he doesnt love, if it is only his abussive nature i think you should let him know you dont like it.

Answer 7

I think its important to do whatever you need to do to get out of the relationship... so if that means goings somewhere he will not know where you are than you need to do that. I think moving is your best option, but I also think you need to get the police involved!

Answer 8

get the cops to throw him out and get a restraining order against him....if he still conitnues to bother you he could get into some major trouble..because if everything is in your name, its you who has the right to stay.

Answer 9

take strong action and punish him