in the back door, but I've been to scared. Now that it's Valentine's Day I'm really thinking about it. Any reason I shouldn't?
2007-02-14 04:48:35 · 38 answers · asked by Melrose 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL FIRST OF I THINK IT'S A GREAT IDEA AS LONG AS IT'S SOMETHING YOUR DOING OUT OF A WNAT AND A DESIRE. AND MAKE SURE YOU'RE GOING TO BE GETTING SOMETHING OUT OF THIS AS WELL..
SECONDLY MAKE SURE YOU RELAX AND TAKE IT SLOW. GET YOU SOME KY JELLY AND MAKE SURE YOUR SUPERLY AROUSED. IT TENDS TO BE EASIER IF YOU'RE ON YOUR SIDE.
AND BEFORE YOU ASK OR EVEN THINK IT, YES I'M A GUY BUT I'M NOT GAY. THESE ARE THINGS I'VE BEEN TOLD OVER TIME FROM OTHER WOMEN. BECAUSE TO HONEST THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE THINGS.
SO I HOPE THAT YOU ENJOY YOUR VALENTINE'S DAY AND HAVE ONE OF THE BEST EXPERIENCES OF YOUR SEXUAL LIFE.
2007-02-14 05:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by darkside332000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it, with my fiance. We've been together four years, make sure you trust him, not only to stop if you say it hurts, but to respect you enough to not embarass you by telling other people. If you don't want to and have made that quite clear, and he is still bugging you, then get rid of him anyways. If that is the case then he obviously cares more about his fantasies and bragging rights than about you. It DOES hurt, even with lube, the first time. I'm not going to lie. If you feel comfortable enough to go through with it, make sure he stretches you out with a finger or two (i know i sound like a total skank-ew) and ALWAYS wear protection while doing this, even if you have only been with each-other. Wash up well afterwards, and don't let him "go" anywhere else after having contact with your backside without washing thouroughly.
2007-02-14 05:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was not meant or designed for that purpose. Abrasions, tears, infections, etc can be a definitely possible result. A better question to ask is why would my bf ask me to do something that I am not totally interested in or having doubts about? Would not a true bf want me to be comfortable with what I do and not encourage me to do otherwise?
2007-02-14 04:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it might hurt a lot, and I don't know if this is true or not, but my friend told me that another friend of ours had done it and she got hemmoroids. But that might of been because she did it a lot. But my advice is to do what you want to do, not just because your bf wants it. If it's something that you think you would enjoy or you want to try, go for it, but if you really aren't interested then don't but if you do, make sure you use lots and lots of lube.
2007-02-14 04:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by fergalicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a crafty butcher,by all means have the meat delivered through the back door,otherwise tell him your going to do him first with a strap on,and see if he is up for it.
2007-02-14 04:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by havanadig 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS THIS GUY REALLY WORTH IT? Do you see yourself marrying him? save that for you husband after you get married if you want to be adventurous. let him feel like he was the first in the back door, save something for the special for you future husband.
the decision is up to you, I'D MAKE HIM WAIT AND IF HE REALLY LOVE YOU HE WILL.
2007-02-14 05:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-Respect?
2007-02-14 04:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by biggimpin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to you if you want to if not he must respect that if he does not like whatever to him. If you do use protection and match sure you are comfortable with this.
2007-02-14 04:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by blackorkid1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different Streaks for Different Freaks
Go for it
2007-02-14 04:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by tacoma_fast_ball 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let him bang you in th @$$. I am sure you will love it. Plus given its Valentine's Day, what girl doesn't like a little chocolate?
2007-02-14 04:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Marbles 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋