just keep a positive mind and flirt with him. after a month or two, after you have become good friends, tell him you need to talk and sit down with him and tell him you like him. if he doesn't like you back, so what? move on, if he's a good friend this shouldn't ruin your relationship and if he's not then so what? you don't need him and you don't need to keep seeing him. trust me, i've had that happen and it only made me stronger. the kid was an a**, and it took me being the bigger person and going to talk to him for me to figure that out. sometimes, you convince yourself to the point of insanity that they are perfect and you would do anything for them, because they are so great, but they're not. trust me, if he acts weird around you b/c he knows you like him, he's an evil idiot who is only worried about his rep. trust me, if he doens't like you for a reason like, "i just don't feel that way about u, i'm so sorry", or, "i'm confused right now and think I like someone else", then it won't be awkward, just say, oh, that's ok, I just wanted to know, good luck, let's still be friends, or something like that, but never say, "ok, forget that ever happened" b/c then you look sheepish and embarrased, and if you're a smart girl then you can keep your head up. Really, there are only 3 things that can happen: 1) he says he doesn't like you that way, and then ignores you and gives you weird looks, which means he thinks he's better than you and it would like, totally ruin his image if anyone thought he liked you, in which case he is the coward, not you. 2) he doesn't love you that way, but he still loves you as a friend, and he let's you know that and you keep being friends. this is good, b/c you get to keep him as a friend, and what you thought were feelings of love may have just been confusion, you were meant to be friends, and you like qualities that he has. you can move on to someone who likes you 'that way'. 3) he likes you back. this is the best option, and i am going to try this method with the guy i like currently in a few weeks or so, or maybe just get a friend to tell him, and i would be happier than any girl in the world if this were the case. you go out, you love each other, you kiss, yay, fairytale ending. but i think i've been concentrating on that a bit too much lately, wondering how great it'd be if this happened, killing myself over 'what if?', and not focusing on anything but him. learn from my mistakes, don't spend your life wishing, go out and find out, and if it doesn't happen the way you want it to, it can only go 2 other ways, both of which are win-win (you find out you are the better person-you make a great friend with whom you don't have to worry about flirting with anymore)
2007-02-14 04:18:16
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answered by aerie anna 3
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1. Someone who sees the best in you.
If you were lucky enough to grow up with healthy parents, you have experienced the feeling of having someone who has always looked at your good qualities. Many of us missed that experience. You will be a lucky person if you have found a mate who is always looking at your 'silver lining'. Too often today people are more than willing to judge you by your errors, not by your potential.
2. Someone who gives you the benefit of the doubt.
There are so many times in your life when you need that little edge, that little opportunity to take just that extra step. It can seem as if your efforts are going nowhere and although you want to keep moving forward, there are so many negatives staring you in the face. That person who knows things could go either way for you but takes that leap to believe you will make it is the person who is more valuable to you than gold.
3. Someone who watches over you.
You need a guardian angel who is there, waiting to catch you if you fall, ready to help you when you stumble, ready to pave the way for you when you cannot get moving. There are people who love you who do just that. There are people who do not make a big deal out of saving your bacon. Do you know who they are?
4. Someone to watch you back.
You never know these days who is waiting to catch you off guard, to make sure you don't do well, to sabotage your efforts. You like to think that people will rejoice when you
do well. Many don't. If someone 'has your back' and runs interference for you when you are trying to run the gauntlet through life, give that person a big 'thanks' plus lots of your attention.
5. The person who tells you we all make mistakes.
You hate to be around that judgemental, harsh person who reminds you, 'I told you so', when things so south. You don't need anyone else telling you what you already know. On the other hand there are people who just let you know that the only way any of us learn is through experience. When you have really ended up in the dumper and blew it, stay close to the one who knows that the person who hasn't done anything wrong hasn't done anything much.
6. The person who gives you advice from the heart, not from the head.
When the situation gets rough and some big decisions need to be made, it's fine to have people outline the pros and cons of a problem and give you 'head' answers. But if you need a nudge sometimes to tip the scales, you always listen to this person who knows you must do what will let you live with yourself and have self respect.
7. The person who won't be the 'yes man' who agrees with you
No one who loves you is going to give you the green light and tell you to let er rip if it's clearly going to be bad for you. It's sad that often you surround yourself with people who tell you what you want to hear. The one who loves you will tell you to get help for a drinking or drugging problem, to stop the extramarital affair, and to be a good and decent person.
8. Someone who tells you to knock back, smell the roses, and enjoy life part of the time.
If you are a person who is a real performer and doer, there are likely to be people around you who enjoy the fruits of your labor and want you to do even more. Sometimes you may even see yourself as only valuable when you are giving, doing, and performing. Listen to the person who tells you that life is short and you need breaks and some R&R. That is the person who is looking out for you and your health.
9. The one who smiles at you and means it.
The person who loves you looks at you with eyes that smile and mean it. Too many people give you that slick smile, that quick pat on the back, and then forget that you even exist.
The eyes are the windows of our soul and you can read into a person's smile if it is saying, 'You are a fine person and I want to be with you as long as possible'. Don't fall for any phony smile that attracts you off in another direction, only to leave you stranded and alone.
10. Someone who sees you as beautiful, inside and out.
You know you aren't perfect. There are only too many examples of you looking around and thinking that you have flaws and aren't like the people on television. The person who loves you sees you through eyes of acceptance with no conditions. As you gain a few pounds and your hair gets thin, the person who sees you as attractive, inviting, and appealing is the person who loves you all the way, no strings or demands.
Nowadays, it's really important to know who loves you. Everything in our society is throw away, and many people have carried that over into the most important relationships in their lives. Think hard and look carefully. People who love you , like comfortable clothes, are easy on the heart, mind, and soul.
Hope dis will help u........
By d way happy valentine's days 2u tiara
2007-02-14 04:03:57
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answered by Anonymous
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study
2007-02-14 04:02:53
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answered by B2B2008 5
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Ask him if he likes you.
2007-02-14 04:02:23
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answered by x0xjeaninemaex0x 1
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if you doubt that he likes you then he probably doesn't.
if you think he likes you then he probably does.
Just tell him
2007-02-14 04:02:16
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answered by Robert 2
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Ask him!
2007-02-14 04:01:54
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answered by sklinckyyy 1
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tell him
2007-02-14 04:02:02
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answered by Anonymous
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