When I see a nice looking woman I am going to look but when you are with a female it's like you have to close your eyes to the world. Its like you are a horse with blinders on. You only run for her, you only work for her and everything else outside of the blinders ( looking) is cheating. But you will have conversations with this female about other woman and how they look but you better not look at them? Maybe I am just dumb?
2007-02-14 03:50:43 · 13 answers · asked by citizenparticular 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it may sometimes.
if you are looking and wishing, then it's more or less cheating.
but let's be frank.
Girls look at girls just as much as i do. and if any of them says, ''we don't look, they way you do'' i say...i know i don't look at guys the way i see girls look at girls these days. And no one can say he/she knows what the other one is thinking.
2007-02-14 04:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by as_a_youngthief_in_da_night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand why this would make you feel the way you do. I feel this is something men do and it has nothing to do with his feelings for you. Has anything changed between the two of you? Do you feel he is acting different in anyway? I feel he is just having fun with his friends and not something for you to worry about. If it continues bothering you and he continues doing it, which he probably will, then maybe you should try talking to him again, but I don't think he will understand why your reacting the way you are. I understand where you are coming from, but from being much older than you and trying to understand men myself, he probably doesn't feel he's doing anything wrong. Was he trying to hide it from you? Have the two of you had problems before, it doesn't sound like it to me. Is there someone like your mom, sister or close friend you can talk to about this? I wouldnt' be surprise if they tell you the same thing, this is what they do. In my days, it was magazines they looked at. I wish you the best. Take care & God Bless you.
2016-03-29 06:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and my husband will comment on many women while we are in public. He says whatever in front of me. I don't see it as a big problem. I don't comment on men, because I don't feel like it. I mean come on........ are you running up to these women and looking up their skirts or grabbing their boobs.....NO.....So whats the problem right? All women feel like there is room for improvement with themselves even if she is a "10", whatever that standard is? All women are competition to other women...in any situation, co-workers, your friends that are girls even her friends that are girls, and even strangers. It is all threatening to a woman to have "their" man looking, we jump to the worst case scenario.....
You aren't dumb.....your are a guy....
Look anyways......their loss, and it isn't the females choice in your life to decide what females are going to be in it, if that was true you would have one female in your life and it would probably be your mom. So, your a guy, be a guy!
2007-02-14 04:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is no.
However, out of respect for your lady while out you may not want to peek over her shoulder or break your neck turning to get a good look at that big booty passing by.
Just think if she were to do the same looking at another man when out with you...
2007-02-14 03:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by DaddyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not really. I don't feel that it is cheating just to look. When you go into any store or drive for that matter you look at everything. As long as you don't drool and start falling over when you with your girl just a look then there should not be a problem
2007-02-14 03:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking isn't cheating..common, I'm not a female but of course a guy is going to look at a attractive girl it's in our nature, most girls get pissed if you look at another girl so you just need to watch yourself when your with another women.I know it's hard but try not to make it that your staring at the hot girl just glance quickly..thats what i do and it works everytime!
2007-02-14 03:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by digibluh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never hurts to look, so long as you do not act on the impulses, although President Jimmy Carter did say "I have sinned, I had lust in my heart", I think so long as the lust stays in your heart and not your pants you are okay. Good wholesome American Male
2007-02-14 03:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use your cell phone to take a picture of the other women when you GF's not looking , then look at them later.
2007-02-14 03:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, women are just unreasonable. You need to look without an intention. Dont make it obvious that you want that woman.
2007-02-14 03:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by Danny S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok to look just as long as you don't do it in front of your girl because that's very disrespectful.I had that done to me before and trust me i hated it.Just don't drool and make a big deal and noticeable because that will cause alot of problems with your gf.
2007-02-14 04:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by boriqua_052005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋