iv been meeting a guy now since december, and its been steady. nothing serious, but we talk every day and meet up once or twice aweek.
i texted him last night, and was a little bit sroppy and basically ended the conversation short... with good night babe xx
he didnt text me back. which is fine.
but its now 4.40 and not even a single happy valentines card/text anything!
one min he wants everything but the next he shuts me out!
should i forget him, or should i grow up and make the first move..... i feel like i give 100% but get back 70% (on a gud day)
ta x
2007-02-14 03:41:39 · 12 answers · asked by geminially 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him come to you! Most guys don't like it when girls chase them - give him a chance to be the one who chases you!
I wish you well!
2007-02-14 03:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would not pursue him. He knows it is Valentines Day and if he is going to do something for you he has ALL day. Don't whimper about it yet. BUT, there are men out there will do nothing at all for their wives, girlfriends and some women are fine with that. It is now time for you to put the cell phone on vibrate....even if he does call, don't anwer it...let him text you or leave a voice mail. It very well could be that he is going to do something for you and it is a surprise and he's all wrapped up in that. If you hear nothing from him today, MOVE on. You are already feeling slighted by him. You give 100% he gives 70% (on a good day), you will get less and less from him as the relationship goes on.
2007-02-14 11:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are always the one to make contact first then I'd have a talk with him and ask him if he wants the relationship to continue. Better to find out now and not waste time, he may think that he's taking it steady, he may not believe in buying into the Valentines hype, or he may be planning a surprise for you later. Without talking you won't know.
2007-02-14 11:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to be worried that much over a relationship, then it sounds to me like it just isn't worth it. When things are right, then you know it and don't have to wonder or worry. Sounds like he just isn't "in to" you as much as you might be with him. I'd stop worrying about it, live your life as if he wasn't in it, and if he contacts you, fine. If not, fine. But don't hold your breath. Don't let him think you are holding your breath and waiting around for him. That only teaches him to take you for granted. If he really does care about you, then by showing him that you are moving on unless he demonstrates his feelings more clearly, then you are teaching him not to take you for granted. If he doesn't care that much for you, then you are telling him that's okay because the feeling is mutual, and this leaves your dignity intact. Good luck.
2007-02-14 11:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is a Mr. Cheapoo, and will get ahold of you after V day, like nothing happened. If this is the case, drop this guy, cause he is not for you. Next holiday is Easter?? Will this happen again?? Do you really want to find out?
2007-02-14 11:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First its 440am, give the guy a break. Now the other issue if you are not getting back what you expect then move on,don't settle for second best, and ohhh ya girl, if he's what you want what are you waiting for???
2007-02-14 11:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a.) he was probably intimidated and is waiting for things to cool down from the pressure of V-Day but still likes you
b.) he's secretly waiting to break it off with you
c.) his celly got cut off
ADVICE:
wait for him to text you. that'll let him know that you are not clingy. if it doesn't happen the way you want it to be, then 6 words:
He's just not that into you.
2007-02-14 11:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like the guy then you should make the move. You got to take what you want and don't wait for the guy
2007-02-14 11:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by digibluh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is tired of you leading him on.
If you haven't given up the a ss after two months he feels you are wasting his time and are a tease.
give it up or get out of his life.
2007-02-14 11:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Bluto Blutarsky4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not really into you, like 70% maybe
2007-02-14 11:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by Indiana Jones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋