My current relationship works great nbesides the terms of security between each other. We trust each other but every now and then we fight because of jealousy. Is this normal in a teenage relationship and how can I solve it?
2007-02-14 03:40:39 · 16 answers · asked by jarrette12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know..I mean it is normal. I always had a bit of jealousy. Even since Ihave been married, although much less now.
2007-02-14 03:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on one's personal values' system. In my own, jealousy is a negative emotion and it comes from an unhealthy place--a place desirous of controlling another person and I don't feed this if I can help it. The only time I have experienced being with a jealous man it was not "a little healthy jealousy," it was absolutely miserable to be me. So maybe this is why it works this way for me. When I have felt jealousy, it came from a lack of trust. Also unhealthy.
2016-03-29 06:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its normal..as a matter of fact, I think of my boyfriend and myself as a little bit on the weird side, because we have never, ever fought about jealousy..it just isn't an issue! But, all my friends and their boyfriends are always getting into arguments over jealousy..It happens. I mean, it's simply human nature..Just make a promise to each other that you can be trusted...and there's no reason to freak out over nothing...and prove to each other that this is true:]
Good luck && Happy Valentine's Day!
2007-02-14 03:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy kind of goes with the age demographic!
It's Not a Good thing to have in any Mutually Trusting Relationship!
Sort it out before it causes your relationship to terminate!!
2007-02-14 03:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little jealousy is unavoidable in any relationship, but u can handle the situation. Just dont let little jealous spurts make you do something you know is stupid and potentially relationship ending, also try explaining to her that you get a little jealous and crazy from time to time.
P.S. Good Luck
2007-02-14 03:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by CASEY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jelousy if a form of posessiveness, once the trust is complete the jelousy will receed.
it is a part of all relationships and as long as it doesn't become overbearing and does not control the way you interact with your partner, it can be a healthy way to explore what it is you are really feeling.
Don't be afraid to talk about you feelings and be sure to explain how they effect you as well as how you think they might effect your relationship.
one final thought, enjoy it while it lasts because once it does, it usually means the relationship is fading.
2007-02-14 03:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by jazboz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you TRUST each other as you say there would be NO Jealousy. If there IS jealousy, then there isn't trust. How to solve it, Get rid of the jealousy.
2007-02-14 03:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say its normal but it happens alot in relationships regardless of the age its mainly a trust / security issue that causes it. try find the cause of the jealousy and then you can try fixing it :--)
2007-02-14 03:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal in any relationship, but its not healthy at all, and no you dont trust each other if you fight over jealosy issues, you need to look past that if you want it to work. trust is a big part of relationships without it it is pointless.
2007-02-14 03:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young teenage relationships aren't ever healthy...they're learning experiences. One of you will dump the other one for being jealous and then you'll modify that behavior to have a healthy adult relationship someday.
2007-02-14 03:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Robert 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋