I was seeing this guy who is sweet and loving to me..Everytime we were together he would treat me respectfully and lovely..The problems i had with him that he spends a lot of time with his friends.. he drinks a lot with them...He want me to drive to him everytime since he might be drunk and doesn't want to drive like that...He calls late and asks me to hang out with him late since he gets free late.. And that he doesn't want to plan anything big now. But he told me for many time that he loves me and cares aobut me... We haven't talk for like tree weeks ... there was no break up.. no hard words.. nothing.. we just don't contact each other...I miss him a lot and don't know what he feels and if he would want to hear from me again. I tried to go out with other but feel like don't want to know anybody but him. Should i contact him or wait for him since i know if guys behavie this way they they'r not ready for anything.. and if he is not ready then it's a waist of time.
2007-02-14 03:39:38 · 13 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-14 03:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by LoSTcaUsE326 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People go through stages in life. He is in his party stage, where he doesnt want to be tied down. Its the "Bros before Hoes" stage. We all go through it. You are more mature than him, and you are looking for something he is not. He is not ready for you. It may take a while, but eventually he will grow up and realize its time to settle down, thats when you walk back into his life. Until then, dont show him that you htink about him all the time, but let him know your still around. Dont kiss his butt, or ask him to do things. Just enjoy life, and try to move onto the next stage, responsible young adult. That will make you more attractive in his eyes.
2007-02-14 11:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by The Date Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's a waste of time then why talk to him?
you need to find something new.
Maybe you should hold off from dating for a while until you find out what you need.
You're not going to die if you're single.
independence it beautiful.
enjoy it!
Good luck and Happy Valentine's Day!
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2007-02-14 11:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound harsh or anything but it doesn't seem like he was ever ready for anything. he used you for rides home ... you guys didn't sound official. and let me tell you something ... anyone can say i love you. it sounds like he never went out of his way for you. you went out of your way. he loves you so much that he doesn't call you to see how you are doing. and if your intuition is telling you that he might not be ready for this then dont insist ... let him go and move on.
2007-02-14 11:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey a telephone works two ways..call him and just ask him if he is mad at you or something to clear the air! playing guessing games and asking strangers on yahoo isnt going to answer why you havent spoken to him in 3 weeks
2007-02-14 11:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him and tell him how you feel and ask him why he has not contacted you.
Life is what you make it not what others make it for you, get out there and take from life what it offers.
Good luck and god bless.
2007-02-14 11:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he drinks too much, spends too much time with friends, calls at the wrong times, and probably is seeing someone else just like himself.
2007-02-14 11:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and c if he wants to go out but its okay maybe he just needs space or needs to hangout wit guys
2007-02-14 11:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by smiley_meliy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby you got lucky and he blacked out who you are. find a new friend thats not a drunk
2007-02-14 11:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with your life. how much idle time have you wasted worring about this??? you spend that energy on one who needs you
2007-02-14 11:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by joe citizen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋