ive been seeing this guy for like 4 months- good or bad idea? what do ya think?
2007-02-14 03:26:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm a guy, i personally would get shocked but if you give me just a night i would start thinking if i love you or not and i would get a really warm feeling inside
2007-02-14 03:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by lil dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should never...love is not a creepy thing! It is a wonderful thing! He would probably be honores to hear it. There is no certain time frame it takes to love someone.... There are many kinds of love...one is loving the person...another is being in love with the person. Either way it goes its always a good feeling to be loved! Go for it...if the feeling is not mutual then it will either take some time, which is fine...not all people fall as fast , they just cannot hlep it, or it was just not meant to be and that feeling is just lust! Hoped this helped a lil...
Good Luck!
p.s. I told my bf 'I Love You' after Two months!!! and he said it right back!! Best Wishes to you
2007-02-14 11:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling a guy u love them does creep them out depending on the guy.You should ask him does it creeps him out u just telling him how you feel some peopl have been in serious relationships and have had there hearts broken and is not ready for the 3 little words with powerful meanings.it's all up to you really and it's not a good or bad idea it's how you feel
2007-02-14 11:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by $ROBINHOODCHICK$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how the man feels about you. I'm fifty years old and have been married 3 times. I've dated many women and I either felt "love" for them or not by 4 months. He knows if he loves you or not. If you're not sure then it's a risk, but who says love isn't risky. Don't hide your feelings, tell him your feelings and let him know what it means to be loved by you. Good Luck
2007-02-14 11:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by William D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it would depend on the guy. Do you feel like your relationship has progressed to the stage where the 2 of you are an "us" & not a "me and you"?
Good luck. Today is V-Day. Maybe it would be good to do it with a romantic setting.
2007-02-14 11:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. If he's ready for that kind of commitment then it will just be a natural progression of your relationship. If he's not ready it could be awkward and may be the end of your relationship. Only you and him are in that relationship so you need to make that decision based on what you think.
2007-02-14 11:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by pixi_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how he feels. If he is a player he will get creeped out, but if not he will say he loves you to or at least that he cares about you.
2007-02-14 11:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could creep them out if its too early but only you know if its too early. I feel that maybe you should just slowly get into a converstation and tell him that you have love for him. Then feed of what he says and then you could know how he feels.
2007-02-14 11:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD 4 months is way too soon. wait at least couple of years. If you guys last that long.
2007-02-14 11:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like when a guy tells me that he loves me too early. after 5-6 months is ok, but if you think that you really love him, why not tell him
2007-02-14 11:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by deana m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋