we've been friends since highschool. we were really close for years. to the point where people would ask us if we were a couple. When she got a boyfriend, we lost touch for a couple of years. now that shes single we've been hanging out and partying together. when were drunk, sometimes we'll just end up kissing or making out but she says its just cause were drunk. she also tells me when shes drunk, that she has always liked me and always wanted to be with me. in the morning she calls me and says sorry and acts like she didnt mean what she said. now, i have always adored her dearly. I dont know what to do because. i really like her but she seems to only dig me when were drunk. were goin to the bar tonight . what should i do!???
2007-02-14 03:16:46 · 9 answers · asked by spanish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's possible that she's afraid of liking you.
Drinking lowers inhibitions... that little voice in the head saying: OMG, don't tell him you like him, what if he doesn't like you??
Tonight, my suggestion before you go out drinking is to sit down, and tell her what you've told the world here. That you do think she's great, and you enjoy her company, but you feel like you're getting the run-around because she only likes you when you're both drunk.
Honesty is the best policy. And, if she's any sort of real woman, she'll be honest with you too. Best of luck.
2007-02-14 03:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn man I got the same situation. There's this chick that we used to have a thing goin, then it sorta fizzed out on her part. We still chill, and everybody says it looks like she likes me. When we get drunk we flirt harder, and sometimes make out. She's really hot, and I'm cute but a little on the average side. To be honest I think she's lookin for some model type, prince charmin dude, and comes around when she doesn't have much. I think she likes me but is waiting to see if she finds better. She won't just chill the F out and settle down.
2007-02-14 11:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by maneone22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just come out and say look i like you but right now im kinda
in a rockand a hard place u act like u only want me when were drunk . im sorry if i some how lead u on but i really want to be wit u and i think u want me too! or something to let her know how u feel or avoid her that will get her attention!
2007-02-14 11:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Whitney D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd be thinking of an elaborate plan to get her into the sack. If she digs you when your both drunk then take this all the way and you both can blame the alcohol in the morning if it doesn't go well.
2007-02-14 11:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, make it a formal date. I think she likes you more than friends but may be afraid to tell you. And if it bothers you so much about the drunk talk, stop drinking so much when together. Find something else to do.
2007-02-14 11:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the bar get half lit and tell her how you feel. When she asks about it in the morning tell her that you weren't that drunk and that's how you really feel. You will never know if she is just affraid without putting her on the spot.
2007-02-14 11:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out on a date.
2007-02-14 11:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel BEFORE you drink. And sometimes people's true feelings come out while drinking and when she sobers up, she feels embarrassed.
2007-02-14 11:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the bar. this might be the night.
2007-02-14 11:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋