I am not into playing games, i am a one man women but i have got myself into a situation. i left my husband 2 years ago because of various things that drove us apart, i had fallen out of love with him too. i started seeing a guy who i'd known a few years ago, and i fell head over heals for him. i still am really in love with him, he is my best friend. but he got jealous because my ex-husband was phoning all the time, every time the phone went he thought it was him, and he had an affair. i broke up with him, because the trust had broken down for both of us. but i still love him a year later. meanwhile, my ex has been calling wanting to get back and i have felt the beginings of having feelings again for him. i am single, but they both talk to each other. i was told by both of them about a conversation they had, my ex-husband said 'i love her more than anything in the world, and my ex-boyfriend said 'then you know how i feel' i love them both in a way, they are friends too and it's hard.
2007-02-14 03:11:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love my ex-boyfriend enough to spend my life with him, and grow with him but without trust i'm not sure it would work out. before we split he was my world and i wouldnt think of anyone else. what would you do?
2007-02-14 03:12:44 · update #1
Make a list.
Reasons to Stay (with Husband)
Reasons to Leave (husband)
Make a second list.
Reasons to Stay (with boyfriend)
Reasons to Leave (boyfriend)
Physically see the reasons and rationalize with yourself. Weight the Pros and Cons and sort everything out. Good Luck
2007-02-14 03:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this is a no brainer..... They both talk and get along with each other....and the common linkage is you.
Take them both on at the same time in the same bed. Why settle for one or the other when you can have your cake and eat it too.
I'd be making all the arrangements for this menage-a-twa right now!!!!!!
2007-02-14 11:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to your ex boyfriend.
2007-02-14 11:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what fells right. u can either be with one of them or just date a lot more guys.
2007-02-14 11:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new
the boyfriend i dont care how much he thought u were with ur husband he shouldnt have cheated
find someone who deserves u
2007-02-14 11:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋