2007-02-14 03:08:56 · 16 answers · asked by Chanda B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that his feelings are overwhelming him. He's afraid to get in too deep too fast. He may also know if you build a relationship slowly it will probably last longer. The ones that burn hot and heavy really quickly usually burn themselves out.
2007-02-14 03:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may mean he was recently hurt, you are great, but he just can't just dive into this relationship and see if it floats--he needs to wade in gently so he doesn't screw up like last time.
Alternatively, he could be trying to beat you to the punch. If he thinks you think things are moving to fast, he can suggest slowing them down before you do. This way, you are both on the same side, rather than opposing each other. Then he can keep trying to move things forward at his own pace. If you try to slow things down first, then he gets trapped in the role of the guy moving things along while you get stuck slowing things down. If he is the one that suggests slowing them down, either of you can affect the pace of things.
2007-02-14 03:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt to loosen up slightly. attempt to no longer think of so annoying approximately whether he's into you or no longer, or the place this might all lead. None human beings have a crystal ball, so attempt to settle for that relationships are like a climate forcast - in case you be conscious of your employer (and the area) you would be able to make an knowledgeable wager that would or won't be precise. regrettably, you could on no account confirm. that's no longer your first rodeo, and he in all probability additionally has been around the block some cases, and doubtless he in all probability is feeling particularly perplexed via fact he had resigned himself to seeing you as in simple terms acquaintances, and now you have replaced the regulations lower back. In a feeling he desires to fall decrease back in love with you, this is annoying for him via fact he had to fall out of love as quickly as earlier whilst he concept you weren't that into him. wait and see with him! Boys have hearts too. Spending the weekend with you tells me he's plenty into you - no sane guy might spend 40 8 hours interior the organization of a woman he wasn't prepared on (till she became relatives). He respects your obstacles concerning intercourse, this is nice information. for the period of the week and somewhat if artwork is annoying and time-ingesting you would be able to the two locate retaining in touch is greater good to do. Texting is a physically powerful sign. you won't be related on the hip the form you would be able to have been in case you have been a youthful couple, possibly via fact you're the two completely person, independant and mushy on your own organization. that's a healthful place to be, and a physically powerful thank you to run a relationship - merging is for agencies, no longer human beings. finally i might say that in case you do run into hardship later, that's fairly helpful to work out a therapist approximately communique and expressing desires, via fact if something i think of this is the place you will possibly have a vulnerable spot given your falling out and so on. :) C.
2016-12-17 09:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may mean he is experiencing feelings he is not familiar with and needs to assess the situation. Some men "scare" easily and need more time to process things.... you may want to give him a bit of time. Good luck.
2007-02-14 03:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Leah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May have had some bad relationships in the past, or is not ready for a commitment
Or both
2007-02-14 03:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he still wants sex from you but he is unwilling to commit. He wants to keep his options open but at the same time string you along.
2007-02-14 03:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by puckbunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is thinking with his big head and not his little one.. LOL.. Seriously this is a good thing. He doesn't want to rush into something he is not ready for and hurt himself or you..
2007-02-14 03:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want to take things fast because he is scared if he does it might ruin the relationship thats what he is scared off.
2007-02-14 03:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means he don't want to get into a serious relationship.
2007-02-14 03:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn around and run! He does not want the responsibility of commitment.
2007-02-14 03:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by megan261980 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋