I have a bf and he makes me laugh like no other, BUT he also makes me cry like no other too! I no ur suppose to keep the cry that makes u laugh like no other but what if that guys, breaks ur heart and makes u cry! I mean i laugh everyday but i also cry! I have a very VERY low self-esteem and he no it and yet i will be kidding around he will say something sooo mean and just make me cry! I mean idk if i love him i dont even no what love is! But all my family loves him and no one nos the emotinal pain he cauzes me!! SOMEONE HELP ME!!!! Stay w/ him or Leave him!!
2007-02-14 02:16:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to open up to someone you feel like you can trust. You could use someone elses point of view in this because I can tell right now your just really confused, I feel ya. Ive been there. I dumped the guy because to me, no matter how much I loved the guy, ppl do get sick of feeling bad. I didnt want him to bring me down because I felt like my emotions were being played. I felt like he put my feeling on a roller coaster. But Im not saying base what you do on what I did. You WILL miss those times when you laugh but I KNOW your sick of feeling bad. Id like to talk to ya sometimes^^..Myspace.com/amethystnightx
Much Love
Nikki
2007-02-14 02:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki.[mmk]. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would tell my family about what I really feel, that he's emotionally hurting you. I'm not sure but I think, he doesn't love you. If you really love someone, you would never or atleast try not to hurt that person. He is making you laugh, but I cannot say that that's the only basis of love. Anyone can make me laugh if what he's saying is funny, but that doesn't mean that he loves me. I suggest that you talk to him and ask him if he's doing those things on purpose. Tell him that you're hurt and if yu cannot stant it, have a cool-off with him so that both of you can think. If you are really meant for each other, you will be together, no matter what.
That's all! Hope I helped!
2007-02-14 02:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by myangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is breaking your heart over whatever it is then you need to talk to him about and let him know you don't appreciate it. I think your family deserves to know what they don't see or hear, but only if you want them to know which will be up to you to tell. Try to work it out first and if things still don't change then you make the decision to leave him and let him know why. You need to get a back bone and do what you have to or you will allow anyone including him to step all over you. Turn that low self-esteem into something positive that will help you whether you are still with this guy or in a whole new relationship.
2007-02-14 02:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He makes you happy and sad.
You're going to have to figure this one out. Perhaps you can tell him that you're having a hard time trying to work this out cos there are times he's so mean to you it makes you cry.
Perhaps he can work on not being so mean.
Or perhaps it can't be changed and you might be better off with someone else.
2007-02-14 02:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laughing and crying everyday. Hmmmm. I think you're bipolar. Take some lithium, it'll clear right up.
2007-02-14 02:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a ton of men out there that can make you laugh if he dosnt make you fell good about your self an make you cry all the time and thinks its funny get away from him.
2007-02-14 02:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to be treated like that. You need a guy who is going to respect you. Tell your parents that it just isnt working out and if they ask why just be honest with them and they will understand.
2007-02-14 02:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can laugh always with many things ,even watching movies will make you luagh but only he makes you unhappy. i'm sure you're sick of becoming sad and that's all becuase of him !
2007-02-14 02:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know the answer already, just follow ur heart
2007-02-14 02:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Cleopatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend talking it out.
2007-02-14 02:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋