2007-02-14 02:15:57 · 19 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's pretty clear he doesnt give a rats *** about you and never has. you decide. get some self esteem. I suspect you have big boobs and are good in the sack. therefore he treats you like a booty call and doesnt really care if you live or die.
2007-02-14 02:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's a big no no. guys try to never forget those kinds of dates. that hurts us like u have no idea. i dont think u should break up with him just for that. but be mad for a while. if u want to break up w him cuz that will make u feel better then do it but no cuz he forgot two dates. well 2 very important days. has he done this before? is this the kind of guy that never remembers anything that is important to u? or he usually does but this time maybe he was stress out and it just slipped... ask ur self a few of this questions before u decide to end ur relationship.. there are guys that are just no good with dates and u have to remind him. i had to remind my boyfriend that today was valentines about 3 times... and we already exchange gifts on sunday. but the actual happy valentines day baby i had to remind him. and i know that with my b-day is gonna be the same. but i dont care cuz i know he doenst do it on purpose. so i just remind him and that's it. GOOD LUCK !
2007-02-14 10:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all.Boys are always preoccupied with something or the other.Fine he is your boyfriend and may love u very much but from a boy's perspective these eventful days are not that important to a boy than it is to a girl.But all said and done he should have wished u.But dont let this spoil your relationship.I am sure he must have made up in some way to u.If he hasn't just give him another chance and wait.Time is a very good healer
2007-02-14 10:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats a stupid reason to break up. Talk to him about it first. He might of just had something else on his mind that he hasnt told you about like a family emergency and he was just trying to keep it from you so you wouldnt feel bad for him. If then he still is just being stupid and just didnt care, then you break up with him. Find out the reason first. Give him a 3rd chance. My husband forgets my bday all the time and everything else i tell him. Its a guy thing.
2007-02-14 10:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would break up with him just yet but I would let him know that it hurt your feelings that he didn't think of you on those special days. Be sure to let him know that is isn't about him getting you a gift or spending a lot of money on you but that some acknowledgment would have been nice. It sounds to me like he is a little selfish and unromantic. You need to decide if it is really that important to you and if it is see what happens next time.
2007-02-14 10:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The sooner the better. This guy isn't likely to consider any day as a special occasion when it comes to you, but my guess is that he's quick to acknowledge his friends and family's special days. I dated a guy like you described once. Disregard him and his thoughts as they don't matter and carry no significance for you. There's so many other guys you'll cross paths with that will find you special enough to make a big deal out of birthday, v-day, etc. Go for it!
2007-02-14 10:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he try to make up for forgetting your birthday? Do you think he will do anything to make up for forgettign valentines day? My bf sometimes forgets special occasions but he always tries to make up for it. If this is the case he may be worth saving the relationship. If he blows it off even though he have reminded him, then he probably doesn't care about you.
2007-02-14 10:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Keri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he forgot Valentine's Day? It's still early in the day! give him sometime. And as for your bday, it depends on the circumstances, did he know it was your bday? Did you remind him? If you reminded him and he still did nothing, then that's pretty messed up. Did you get him anything for his bday?
2007-02-14 11:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should.
I broke up with a bf once on my birthday because he forgot it and kept going on and on about the party he was having for his birthday a few days later and never invited me.
I felt better after I broke it off.
2007-02-14 10:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
has he forgotten more special days?
and question when he forget these days has he made it up to you
and what is his response
i say depending what he say then i say brake up with him but
you really is the only one that could think what you want to do with your boy friend.
are you with him for materials things or are you with him for love i would also ask him the same question he needs to try to pampered you up aswell excuse my spelling if he is not doing his job then i dont think he is a boy friend materials thing i hope things get fixed if not chin up there are more fish in thee sea
2007-02-14 10:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by mary o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋