my boyfriend gave me chlamydia but he says he wasnt sleeping around on me but i know that wasnt true because i have it and i know i wasnt messing around but the thing is we would have been together for 3 years in June and i;m two months pregnant and he really want to me with me he cry and gets on his knees and beg me but i cant well i want to becaues i love this boy snice the 11th grade but he has really hurt me and still upset that he wont amit that he cheated i really dont know what to do everytime he calls i just start crying i dont even want him arond me please help me......thank you for your time
2007-02-14 02:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you weren't fat, none of this would be happening to you. Remember that.
2007-02-14 02:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by theangel1025 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you've been with him for three years then you have a lot of history on which to base your decision. Take a long hard look at what kind of man he's been in the past. If he has a history of lying then he's probably lying right now! If he's a CHEATER, then cut him off by all means before he brings you something a whole lot worse. On the other hand, If he's been consistent in the past then he may be telling the truth OR is warranted a lil' grace for this transgression. I'm not suggesting that you stay in a relationship with a cheating man, but if this behavior is not typical of him then he's probably scared to death to confess. We are all guilty of doing things that we wish we could take back.
Speak with your Dr. about Chlamydia so that you will know all of the facts and if it's possible that one of you already had it prior to this relationship and just didn't know it. Many Blessings
2007-02-14 02:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by qtpisunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant forgive then move on. dont accept him back into your life if your not willing to forgive him. he still lying about having cheated on you. it will take forever for him to admit it because he does want to lose you and he fears that if you know the truth then things will be worse and you will hold it over his head for ever (which you will), then your going to want details, who, where, when and why. he doesnt want to have to answer those questions. i can accept him more if he tells me the truth, i feel we can get passed it and move on, but i wont ever forget it and everytime he do anything i will always remember what he did. (are u like that too)?
2007-02-14 02:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your doctor whether this is a condition that either of you could have had for quite some time. He may be telling you the truth. You obviously care a great deal about this man. Examine whether you have other reasons to suspect he was cheating. Good Luck
2007-02-14 02:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sorry, but i dont think you should forgive him especially if he gave you chlamdyia and then cant give you the respect to come clean with the truth, the only way i think you'll ever be able to truely trust him and look at him the same is if he comes clean about the std and explain how you guys contracted it without cheating on each other(if possible) trust is the back bone of every relationship, if you dont have trust you dot have shi
2007-02-14 02:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by neenbean 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't take any notice to him, he's lying through his teeth, he had sex with someone else and gave you an STD.......if i were you i would dump his dirty **** fast before he gives you and your unborn baby something else like AIDS....i hope that you have had a check to see if your baby is OK too....he's a rat....get rid of him, once a cheat always a cheat, and if he's telling you that he has not slept with anyone then the chlamydia fairy mus have got into his house one night and left it in his underpants....who's he trying to kid....dump him, he's no good...let him beg and plead, he does not deserve you or the baby
2007-02-14 02:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you been to the Dr? u know a sexually transmitted disease can hurt your unborn child... and make him take his a** to the Dr and get tested... Gesh let him cry and beg, but until u know the truth keep him and his d*ck at arms length... sorry to be so blunt.. but he not only gave u a disease.. he also put your unborn child's health in jeopardy...i think you answered your own question.. you don't want him around...
2007-02-14 02:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by nurse_driller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look him straight in the eye and say did u cheat on me cuz if not im walkin right out that door and if he tells u and loves u enough he will tell the truth if he is cryin he probably didnt but he might have had it b4 he met u and gave it 2 u maybe not when he knew u
2007-02-14 02:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by mdmel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its hard to forgive someone after they cheated on you because they broke your trust. Now, ask yourself these questions. Do you think you can trust him again? Do you think he will take care of you and your baby? If you say yes, then talk to him and tell him that you are forgiven him but he has to earn your trust all over again.
Good Luck
2007-02-14 02:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once a cheat all ways a cheat dont give him the time of day next time it might be AIDS
2007-02-14 02:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW. He has to admit the truth. There is no other way you could have got it. He knows you aren't stupid. Tell him to admit what he did or you'll leave. You don't need a liar in your life.
2007-02-14 02:08:55 · answer #11 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋