i split up with my girlfriend less than 2 weeks ago and i was pretty cut up about it, but my girlfriend before her has asked me to be her valentine. im not sure if this is her way of finding out if i still like her or a way of telling me she still likes me. im not sure what to say to her... a little help please..
2007-02-14 01:31:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have always been close and i know i still have feeling for her. she was the only person there for me when i split up with my ex...
2007-02-14 03:04:58 · update #1
It is her way of telling you she likes you and a smart way of asking if you feel the same. Donot send any mixed messages... be sure of your self before accepting.. good luck
2007-02-14 01:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's hinting to you that she still likes you and wants to know if you feel the same way. If you do, then go out with her, but if you don't... then it's better you don't have a valentine at all because it would just cause alot of confusion. If you do get back together with the girl u just broke up with then she would not like the idea of you hooking up with ur ex on Valentine's Day. All the best! I hope I helped!
2007-02-14 09:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a compliment and see how it goes. If you are free then you have nothing to lose and you may have both changed since you were a couple and maybe improved for the better. Only by meeting for a drink or chat will you know and if you just ignore the offer then you will never know what might have happened. Go on, it is Valentine's day after all.
2007-02-14 09:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by SYJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you'd only let her be your valentine if she'll let another of your ex-s join in for a 3-some.
There's a good reason why she's your ex-gf, right? I'd hope there is.
I somehow manage to stay friends with about 1/3 of my ex-s but I wouldn't do the valentine thing again. Too complicated.
2007-02-14 09:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how much she hurt you I give these 2 options:
Go with the what your heart tells you because you know best.
She hurt you bad and its like cross breeding a lion and a hippo, they just dont mix or are right for each other
or a 3rd option, read this rhyme and see if you can get the message in it and decide:
"In mind we are free
We just want to suceed
But theres something inside of me
That hates every person in it
And i can't listen to all the reasons
That life can be so fair and perfect
But in reality we are there"
2007-02-14 09:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your vunerable at the moment. Try to remember the reasons why you split. If they were bad, then don't go there. She probually doesn't want to be alone on valentines day. Is that a good enough reason to confuse you more.
2007-02-14 09:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by thepurestone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look back go forward Happy Valentines day
2007-02-14 09:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by lucy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go for it and find out, if your both single what have you got to lose.
2007-02-14 09:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is right and you should, if you have still feeling towards her.
All the best!/
2007-02-14 09:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think would be a right thing to do....sorry
2007-02-14 09:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋