If i been suspecting my girl is cheating on me.. well last night she goes, "my best friend just cheated on her b/f.. i was so surprised..." I told my girl that her friend needed to tell her boyfriend, and my girl said, "she eventually will.."
My whole thing is.. my girl has been hiding text messages, calls, and emails from me from a particular guy trying to help her get on a pd. Is it possible this is a cover-up, saying her friend cheated, when my girl was the one who REALLY cheated? Just to see what I would say?
2007-02-14 01:22:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's been hiding things and acting weird as well. She's even been "talking" like him and acting like him.. if you know what I mean??
2007-02-14 01:23:14 · update #1
It' sounds like it but sometimes when we are of a jealous nature, as I am, we read things that aren't there. Give her enough rope and she'll hang herself eventually.I wish you the best whatever the outcome.
2007-02-14 01:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that your girl is maybe cheating. I would just not worry yourself about something you have no control over. If it is happening, just sit back and let it come out on its own. She is having fun with the attention on both ends. That will come to an end, promise she wont be so happy about the ending results. If I was you, I would just continue as if I knew nothing, and just start to get your head together just in case it turns out to be true. Be strong and move on. Life is to short to continue to settle for non sense. Life is what you choose to make it. Make it good for yourself, cause you need the Lord and no one else.
2007-02-14 01:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you from hard experience that if you can't trust a person and that person can't trust you in any type of relationship, you should exit stage left.
Of course if your boss doesn't trust you, that is a different type of problem but still finding another job would be a good alternative.
However, we can control personal relationships. If you really love someone, you have to build up trust or it will turn out a disaster. So, try to trust her but if she really is cheating, you will probably find out soon enough.
2007-02-14 01:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be getting some indications that she is cheating, but my reccomendation is to lay low, and watch what she does.
If you can get more hard evidence to prove that this is really happening, without a doubt, then you will have enough proof to approach her, and break up with her without any retaliation from her.
If you approach her now, and you don't have any hard evidence, she will make a joke out of it, and you will look like a fool.
You don't want to look like a fool to her, do you ? You don't want her to get the upper hand, so do what I say.
Trust me, I've been there.
2007-02-14 01:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, who knows. I certainly cannot tell you anything except that you and your girlfriend have serious trust issues. I think you need to confront your girlfriend, in a loving way, about your worries, insecurities and jealousy over these things. Obviously, she has the right not to let you read the text messeges and have her own privacy, but you need to let her know what you're thinking. It might end up awful, but for yourself and your relationship, you've got to be willing to take that risk. Good luck!
2007-02-14 01:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think just the fact that you have these feelings is a bad thing.
The fact that she is "hiding" things from you is bad.
Work it out by communicating ~ or I see a break up in your future.
How happy is this relationship making you? Life is short, to trust someone is so important, and I don't see that going on here, so please talk it out or walk (run) out why you can.
2007-02-14 01:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by taraloti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adam - if you can't talk to her about this - you probably shouldn't be in the relationship! If for a second I thought my husband was bringing another woman into our "bed" I would be on him so fast......TALK TO HER!
2007-02-14 01:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her straigh-up to stop helping her do this terribly hateful crime! It is heartbreaking to know someone cheated on you! Do something!
2007-02-14 01:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by nicce 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i believe she was cheating on you. she was looking at how your reactions to the info would be.
2007-02-14 01:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut instinct. There usually right.
2007-02-14 01:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Yogini 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋