My relatives wife died 1 month ago, he got another woman more or less straight away.She is now walking around wearing his deceased wifes clothes!The family (his daughters/sons) are going mad about it, saying its terrible and disrespectful to their dead mother.There is hell on about it.What do you all think about it. Right or wrong?
2007-02-14 00:52:46 · 22 answers · asked by pageys 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There was 'suspicions' he was seeing her before his wife died.
2007-02-14 01:04:45 · update #1
That is a bit odd, it has to be said. It seems this new woman and your relative have become very familiar with each other very quickly. Was his wife's death expected? If so you could make allowances I suppose, but even then it's a bit creepy. I think if I was your relatives new girlfriend, I wouldn't even entertain the idea of wearing his dead wife's clothes, it would freak me out! I just think it's odd.
2007-02-14 00:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ahhh, that is so wrong. If it's not bad enough that your relative has taken up with a woman so soon, but that woman wearing his deceased wifes clothes is bad. That woman has no heart or respect. Ooooooh, I feel so mad for you.
2007-02-14 09:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by thepurestone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is something inherently wrong about this situation. Considering the children are probably still grieveing for their mother, it does seem terribly disrespectful of her - but remember there is always two sides to each story - why dont you just ask him what is going on, and maybe get him to realise how it may be affecting his children
2007-02-14 08:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it happened this soon he was definitley seeing her before his wife died and thats bad enough but letting her wear his wifes clothes well thats just down right nasty and not only disrespectful to his wife but also to his sons and daughters.
If it was me i'd go up to the house pack all my mothers things take them away and leave them both to it. i could never speak to my dad again if he did that.
2007-02-14 10:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be ashamed if I were that woman. She is showing disrepect for the deceased person to everyone. He could use a swift kick for allowing it to happen. Sounds like he might have had this one strung along way before.
2007-02-14 09:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a slap in the face to her kids. Dad and this women definitely don't have any respect for them, or their dead mother. I think they should talk to their father and tell them how they feel about seeing her wearing their mother's clothes. Maybe they should donate the clothes to goodwill, or some other charity.
2007-02-14 09:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by kf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong. A person should have more respect for dead wife or at least respect for the family.
2007-02-14 08:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by teresita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's just gross. That's really wrong, disrespectful. He should be putting his foot downand having some sort of respect. It's more his problem than his new girlfriends though. Mayeb talk to him and ask him what he thinks he's playing at?
2007-02-14 09:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Stevo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong,
I feel sorry for the kids that they've got to deal with this mad woman.
2007-02-14 09:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by MOVED! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very wrong, even if he chooses to marry another woman, she should not be wearing the late woman's things. not fair on the kids.
2007-02-14 08:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Cleopatra 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋