i am tired of her, but i cant tell her, what do i do?

Answer 1

You have to be cruel to be kind sometimes. She deserves to know. You can just tell her you lost your feelings for her and you are sorry. Thats enough. Good luck.

Answer 2

Depends if you care what others think of you. If you don't mind being thought of as a real &%$#@% then just start doing more interesting stuff without saying anything to her. If she does not get the picture you will eventually get annoyed and snap at her. She will then know for certain.

Alternatively.. there is no such thing as 'cant' so get creative and find a way to get the messege to her that you do not want her around. The fact that you are tired of her is an indication of your problem not hers.

Answer 3

You can tell her and you should. We all just want to be happy, & everyone wants to be with someone that "wants" to be with them in return....... & that's how it should be. Life is entirely too short to remain in a relationship that isn't fulfilling (for both people). There's a good possibility that she is feeling that something is wrong. Even tho you may be trying to be "nice", in the long run, it does more harm to be dishonest & mislead someone than to simply be honest. Yea it might be unpleasant - but you gotta ask yourself which is more unpleasant 1) telling the girl the truth & ending the situation now or 2) staying in the relationship til you both resent/hate each other??? Be nice about it, but be honest, straight up & don't lead her on or give her false hopes. Good Luck.

Answer 4

No matter what you think, you will have to tell her eventually, otherwise everything between you will grow stale and make you both unhappy to the point where you both hurt each other.
Although it could hurt her now to break things off, it is best to do that sooner than later, and with a valid reason than just being tired of her, otherwise you could both carry a hatred for each other later in life.

Answer 5

let her feel what you feel.

you don't actually have to tell, actions speak louder than words.

well you can perhaps let her feel that you don't enjoy her company anymore stuff like that or just give a cold treatment to her if she deserves it.


nyway i think guys do really know how to give cold treatment to the gals.. i know you can find a way..

and if you cant stand it anymore and if actions cant tell it... then take a deep breath and tell her face to face. just tell her directly at least after that I'm sure you'll be relieved already.

this can help in ending your suffering i hope you can see that if you'll do it.

i don't know if i should say this but good luck amigo!!!

Answer 6

You cant have cake in hand and eat it too. You decide whether your tiresome is more or your concern for her is more , give some thought over this and then you will get the answer and then act accordingly. (When there is a will there is a way). All the best.

Answer 7

Give her the gift of freedom and yourself the gift of relationship growth. She deserves to be with a guy who celebrates her being in his company. And...you can use this as the opportunity to teach yourself the lessons and value of relationships more. Those lessons being . . . courage, honesty, value of your own and anothers heart and not be dishonest with the heart . . . The right thing is not always easy, yet holding oneself emotional hostage is a limiting place to keep yourself in.

Answer 8

Yes you can! dont be a coward !If I were her and you were my ex you would do me a great favor really people deserve closure .Dont just think about it you punk *** tell her!!Once in for all dammit!!1

Answer 9

hey if u can't carry it. Please don't do it. It is very difficult to hold on with someone whom you don't love. Just chill.

I suggest you should take a break from your current relationship and if you feel still its not worth carrying on - break off.

best of luck dude. Remember. It is easy to be with someone but very difficult to carry a relation.

Answer 10

well if your old enough to be in a relationship then you should be old enough to step up and be a man,,and tell her..you never knwo she might be tired of you too!