Okay this is kinda embrassing but ima come out with it. My boyfriend hygiene is disgusting! He wont take a shower, he never brushes his teeth anymore and he never washes clothes. I mean i tell him he smells and he calls me a liar! We have been together for 3 years and he just start acting like this a year ago. Im sick of it. How do i get it clear to him he smells for real because he doesnt believe me!!??????
2007-02-13 23:50:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why why would you stay with some who doesn’t take a shower or brushes his teeth.
You have to think better of yourself, I not going to ask have you be having sex with this guy, you do know you have to wash up afterwards and if his going down on you with those teeth wow, it's not you job to be he mother, So I would say move on and find someone that know how to take care of himself.
2007-02-14 00:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a few things going on...he might be going thru some sort of depression. maybe he has not confided in you that something is bothering him. maybe he is suffering from a chemical imbalance and needs to see a doctor. I had a friend years ago that suddenly became this way. His wife took him to the doctor and he was suffering from a chemical imbalance. After being put on medicine for about 2 weeks he started to be his old self. This happens with age and sometimes habits such as drugs and alcohol.
I am not a doctor or a counselor but I do have alot of friends and each one is different. The funny thing about this world is that no matter what color we are - what kind of money we have - we all at one point or time in our lives have experienced or touched problems very similar. This is whether it is admitted or not.
So my suggestion is make an appointment for him to see a doctor. If he wont go on his own - make up a story to get him there. Or you could give him an ultimatum that if he dont go to the doctor your leaving - problem with this though is that if he is suffering from depression it will make it worse.
Sudden changes are ALWAYS a SURE SIGN that something is going on....
2007-02-14 00:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by bufalo1501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and say look im sorry ive tried to tell you before but you wont listen i love you and im not trying to embarrass you or make you feel bad but you smell and you need to do something about it because i can't cope with it anymore you never used to be like this why wont you wash your clothes or take a shower? If that doesnt work just leave him and find someone who can be bothered to wash.
2007-02-14 00:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND HIS BEST FRIEND [male} and tell him to talk to your bf, that way he won't be upset with you and ya just know he'd never get mad at his best friend!, or you could run a hot bath for him, light some candles, open a bottle of wine, get in the tub and invite him in, wahlah, instant clean and very romantic, try it you'll like it, so will he!
2007-02-13 23:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he's either looking for a way to get rid of you (but you still keep hanging in there no matter how gross he gets), or that he has determined that if you love him you will love him no matter what way he is (there is a limit on letting a person fall apart like that because there has to be some concern on his part when it comes to health, presentability, looks for income). But either way I think he is trying to discourage you. It's time to move on.
2007-02-13 23:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a shower and while he's in there wash his clothes. and if he refuses tell him you'll go take it with him. it's gross but it might work
2007-02-13 23:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Twisty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deny him to the right to be intimate with you. Because seriously if he isn't clean he can give you an infection.
2007-02-14 00:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this friend who had really bad breath. To make it worse, he told me someone ELSE (a girl) had bad breath. I told him and he didn't believe me. Then another friend told him and he did. Have someone else tell him.
2007-02-13 23:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you meet a really nice guy who relaly takes crae of himself. tell him that your are considering to dump him, he doesnt deserve you, i mean, he doesnt bother to wash himself, let alone work hard to earn a living or do somthing that benefits your family.
give him time then act
2007-02-13 23:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by manutd forever :) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there would be definite ultimatum planning going on here for me!!
i'd be telling him to pick up his game or your leaving - and do so. how gross!
he may get the hint then.
2007-02-13 23:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋