Have known each other for about 1 year plus but just got to meet her recently. Shes a foreigner and I am a local, she came to my country for a 4 days tour last week, we got to know each other on the internet.
Was with this girl for 4 days straight almost every minute together except for resting time, never had this feeling before with any other women, her character and appearance just attact me so much. I brought her to many tourist attactions and every moment with her was just so great.
She isn't exactly what you call the pretty type, abit fat infact but had a very cute and lovable face. I almost cry my heart out for 2 days after she left for the fact that she is from another country and already have a boyfriend.The question is: Is it possible for a human being to fall in love just in 4 days? Also, can anyone can give me some advice over my situation? Many thanks...
2007-02-13 23:43:12 · 11 answers · asked by James1980 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-13 23:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure where you have learnt the phrase 'falling in love' because it does not suite the word love. Love is a choice. It is a commitment that you will stick by someone in good and in bad. This can be a decision made at a time when things are perfect.
So what you have experienced is the perfect time. When things are perfect you can Love almost anyone!! You need to know how confident you are to live by the choice when you have seen her bad side. Her bitchiness, her nastiness, her unforgivable sins. Can you choose her knowing all of those things? If so. Yeah it is love.
2007-02-13 23:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is your situaton since you say she already has a boyfriend? She probably was nice to you because she feels secure in that she has that boyfriend already, plus you were his replacement for four days. Understand that what she was sharing with you was not you she was looking at (she was seeing her boyfriend). It's sad that she left you with your mixed feelings, but she's gone now. So get over it and date others. Most internationals grow up with other traditions, like pleasing men, like staying home with the children, like having the male support them totally (while they get beat up and remain barefoot and pregnant and have no rights according to their laws, religion and tradition and they stay poor). In some traditions even in this day and age women would get flogged or stoned if they were with other men (a man other than their husband or promised partner)
If your question is is it possible to fall in love in 4 days, sure, puppy love and attraction. Does it last...no....especially not if they already are committed (probably by tradition in this case). Was she in love with you....no.
2007-02-13 23:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi to you I'm a new member here nyway lets not consume all the space talkin abt. me.
ahem well all i can say is you are not in love with her..... i repeat you are NOT.
why did i say that ?? well its just infatuation that you are feeling and probably you just got too overwhelmed coz of the attention you probably got from her in which you don't usually experience with the people you are with.
believe me... what I'm sayin' is all true.
maybe you just LIKE her but Love I doubt it
but if you are destined to be together time will come and lay it to you. but if you believe you should fight for it then go ahead coz there no harm in tryin'
try now till there's time.... well hope that you will be able to decide what you think is right and good...
the outcome of your actions will depend on what you do.. you control the situation. so hope you will think hard in this matter of the heart..
good luck!!!!!
2007-02-14 00:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by rici angela t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I my freind have spent a year in the hills of kentucky for a year,
and know what its like being lonely
when I first seen a lil gal that came to visit my family, olso felt some thing like this for her, and she wasnt perfect at all
there nothing wrong with the way that youre feeling,
nothing
2007-02-13 23:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea,, i think it is possible
time is not a matter, but the feeling u have towards her is more important
over ur situation, i think there is nothing for u to do..as u know the girl already has a boyfriend
so...maybe just wait for a few weeks,just to see if u will forget her or not
if not, just wait for her, wait for the chance for u guys.. until ur love for her ends
2007-02-13 23:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by athena k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure it can happen i mean, i only knew a girl for two weeks and by the end of those 2 weeks we got engaged and its all workin out well.
2007-02-13 23:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to be best friends before you can really love someone. I don't think you can be best friends in 4 days.
2007-02-13 23:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ron T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe it's possible.....how can you really love someone you don't even know?.....but hey that's just me
2007-02-13 23:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible. not probable, but possible indeed. maybe you should tell her how you feel
2007-02-13 23:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by Learning To Fly (again) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋