how do i get rid of this love feeling or should i just carry on?

Question

met a boy on the internet about a year and a half ago. We met on an internet chatroom. I used to talk bout that game with him and i liked it, but just LIKED, but since were just talking about everything except that game im feeling very happy when im tlking to him, or really sad when im not. All i can think about is him, its like im doing my homework to pass my exams, to get a job so i can go and pay a trip to NZ(i live in Australia). I know your comments will be like that guy is probably a fat 40 year old geek, but hes not, I have seen him on webcam and stuff before, so thats no problem. The problem is just that i dunno if i shoud carry on with this, or should quit it since im just 16 (hes too) n hard to not think about this internet guy when a boy in real life tells me he likes me.
What is this sad/happy feeling though? love? is that even possible on the internets? ive told him i got feeling fo him, he ses he has them for me too. hmm....what should i do?

Answer 1

A lot of the unknown is what is intriguing you. He may be perfectly fine; he may not. You know he's not going to tell you all of the negative things about himself. He may not even think they are that bad. If you knew everything that you can't find out over emails you may walk away right now. Then again,he may be your future. To really get to know him, if this continues, will take plenty of time.
If you met someone face to face in your own town; it would take time to get to know them. TIME is the key to any relationship. It take time to know anybody.
If you saw this guy today for the first time, it would be like meeting a stranger. You'd have to put all that you've learned about him, together with the present.
The sad/happy feeling is uncertainty; of the unknown that you don't really know about him. Your feelings are absolutely normal. Please, don't rush yourself into anything.
Your freedom in life is precious; don't be quick to give it up. Sometimes it's hard to get it back. If anybody really cares for you, they are willing to wait until you are ready. That feeling is a good way to know to slow down.
You probably have no idea what he does and who he is when he's away from his computer.

Answer 2

This is botsville.......

Everything that you think is real ..

mostly isnt....!!