ok my mom trys to brake me n my dad apart cuz we are really close and he understands me and she is like jeluose or some thing i dont know what her problem is i am so lost on that.... but yeah she always trys to get us apart and i just dont get it so what do i do and why is she doing that..????....
2007-02-13 23:13:37 · 15 answers · asked by cowgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
counseling dear.
2007-02-13 23:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes if you are the parent doing everything for your child and the child takes you for granted and gives the fun parent all the attention it hurts. I don't know your age but this book is probably alright for anyone fourteen and up so if you are old enough please read For One More Day by Mitch Albom. It will make you take another look at your mother and you might see things about her you have missed. Please try working on your relationship with your mother I think the relationship with our mothers are second only to the relationship with our children. Is it hard to deal with our mother, very hard, but in the end you won't regret the hard work you have to put in. Good luck I know you will need it.
2007-02-14 07:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by puzzled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels left out. You have chosen dad to be really close to and you rub it in her face. That hurts. Your father could help by containing your obvious affection so that his wife - your mohter - does not feel hurt. You are enjoying this because you want to get back at your mother like all girls. You are being a brat. Stop it.
2007-02-14 07:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealous; she's supposed to be number one.
trios; they never work - someone always feels left out.
mothers can feel threatened by their young daughters, even though they love them dearly, it is a reminder that they are getting older, lost many oppertunities, and no longer as attractive.
she may not be purposely trying to cause trouble with your relationship with your father. but, it just may be a reaction due to her own insecurities.
don't lose your good relationship with your father over it, but let your mother know that you love her too.
2007-02-14 07:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to understand why people act the way they do. But it appears that son-mom & daughter-dad rship work out more smoothly. You & your mom will become great chums....after you get married & esp when you have kids. All girls need their moms then. till then you do your own thing but dont concentrate on fighting.
All the best !
2007-02-14 07:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Praxis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is jealous because your not spending time with her.
She may long for you and her to be close like you are with your father. Talk with her about it and ask her if that's the problem.
Good Luck.
2007-02-14 08:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to consider just exactly what your mom has given you. You must understand the bond a mother has to her child, think animal instinct if you will. Please respect and love your mom, without her you wouldn't be here!
2007-02-14 08:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must love them the same with that happens bcoz u show more respect and love to ur daddy than her thats why she freaks out remember she carried you for 9 freaking months and nursed u more than ur father did so she expects u to be more connected to,,whatever she does she is doing it is out of a broken heart so what u must do is to show love equally
2007-02-14 07:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OH! my mom does the same thing- my dad and i are like BEST FRIENDS and its like shes jelous.. cuz shes the mean thing... sorry.. cant answer because im confused too but I FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL!!!!!
2007-02-14 07:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should talk to your mom tell her how your feeling and fix what is wrong before you wreck the relationship she could very well be jealous of your relationship between your father and you. rust me talk to her
2007-02-14 07:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
juz talk to her and say u luv her but u and ur dad are closer cuz u have many similarities
2007-02-14 07:26:19 · answer #11 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋