He is a married man with no children, this would be his first blood child and his wife has been declared infertile. He has stopped calling me.
2007-02-13 22:23:27 · 6 answers · asked by Blessing M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Before getting pregnant you two would have certain resolutions and commitments. Are you giving birth for your boy friend or for yourself or for fun? In either case you must ensure for the wellbeing of the child.
2007-02-13 22:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have get involved in a relationship with a married man. That's a huge mistake. What did you expect in the first place - that he would leave his wife, marry you and live happily ever after? That usually doesn't happen. Even if he wants the child, depends how much he loves his wife. You'll be lucky if he admits the child as his own and accepts some financial responsibility for raising it up. Hope everything ends well for you and your baby but don't ever make that same mistake again.
2007-02-13 22:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by petyado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hello! he is MARRIED and what made you think that he would leave his WIFE for you? you should have thought of that BEFORE you had sex with a married man and didn't use protection! shame on you! He may not be able to have children with his wife, but that doesn't mean he wanted to start a whole new family with you. he doesn't want to risk losing his wife over you, because in case you didn't notice, he did MARRY her, not you. just cuz a man has sex with someone other than thier wife doesn't mean they want a whole new family/relationship with the person they are cheating with. you are the OTHER girl, not the main girl. so get a grip and be prepared to be a single mother. that's what you get for messing with another girl's man.
2007-02-13 22:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by lynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like to me he wanted a child so he went and got someone who he is not married to pregnant so that he can have a child. Was this something planned between all three of you or just the both of you because as soon as his wife finds out shes not going to be one happy camper. If he is not keeping contact with you because he does not want his wife to find out did the both of you have arrangements to let him adopt the child so his wife is happy or did he just want a kid. If the case is he just wanted a child even know this is wrong to have a relationship with a married man you have a choice to give the child for adoption to them which who knows if the wife will go for that. Or you can file for custody but that may force the wife to file for divorce. If this was something planned between all three of you I hope they are helping to pay for the medical for you and the baby If this was something done under the table between all three of you it will be hard to take them to court to have them help pay for medical.
2007-02-13 22:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by rosemommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on with your life! he can't be called your boyfriend he's freakin married.. does her wife knows bout your elicit relationship?? and if he's reponsible enough bout your sitiution, then he'd call you everyday to check bout your condition. obviously, he does'nt care that much!! maybe his wife discovered your affair and now has been on his tails watching preventing him to call you.
2007-02-13 22:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by djoana maye denorio-flores 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief, what the hell is wrong with u! I feel so sorry for his wife, the two of u should be ashamed of yourselves!! sorry, but I just can't find any sympathy for u.
2007-02-14 01:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋