Why is it that men complain that they want sex everyday if not twice a day or a women that persues them. But when they get it, after a short while they end up pushing you away?
2007-02-13 21:29:34 · 7 answers · asked by middelmom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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You can only get the truth to this question from a man.
The answer? This is called "newness".
What I mean by that is when it's "new", then the guy will take advantage of it everything he gets a chance. When the "newness" wears off, he loses interest.
Compare it to "new" clothes. When you first get them, they are off the chain. After a while, they are on the backburner.
How can this be remedied? The man has to define his urging and then will be able to become more consistent. Without that, he's deemed immature for this "holy grail" and will continue this cycle because he doesn't know how to appreciate "it".
One love..................
2007-02-13 23:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rule of thumb is that man need sex everytime but most of them can only hold a while and we are watching too many movies showing that man can go on on on!!! That's not true and don't get glum by you reaching your climax slowly. It is a 2 way things that you need to understand man, learn to come together so that both of you reach the climax together. This gives the man more confidence and he looks no further than you. Many women thinks that the man can maintain 30 minutes of sex but it bores you after a while because of the friction. Man thinks that holding on for longer period makes him a full man and that's wrong too.
Sit together and asks for each preference and I know someone whom do not like to come during the sex but will like to do by herself once we finish. A good bargain for me and I do not have to hold on just to enjoy the pleasure and might as well I release earlier after all we all have 24 hours a day.
2007-02-14 05:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cakebread 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural, everyone wants what they don't have and once they get it, its like "is that it"
Its the same in relationships, when people like each other they find the chase really fun and exiting and once they have finally got the person they wanted its like, "OK, so who's my next target"
2007-02-14 05:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes men need sex evryday i am man i need sex 6 times ady
2007-02-14 05:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ahmad E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them interested and excited and they will never go somewhere else!
All the best!
2007-02-14 05:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i could,and would never push away :)
2007-02-14 05:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by a.c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they don't have enough stamina or they just had it enough...it depends on the man....
2007-02-14 05:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Legant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋