2007-02-13 20:59:49 · 22 answers · asked by asawari d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends upon whom you want to attract....
Bcz each & every persons likes & dislikes are not the same. So you need to study the person whom you want to attract or impress. Otherwise you might put yourself in an awkward situation.
Best of LUCK
2007-02-14 04:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Vijay123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you're talking about fantasy or reality. A man retains his child self, teenage self and young adult self even as he becomes old. Hence the saying, "If only I were ten years younger!" when older men look at younger women. Basically then, it depends to what extent the man is living in the real world as to whether he accepts his current age or still imagines himself to be young. I for one am guilty of this: I accept my age (34) reluctantly but wish I were younger. My solution to this problem has been to use Japanese Manga to unwind: reading about the romances of fictional young characters who are dazzlingly beautiful and often to be found in a state of undress. Also though, they cover the subject of sexual confusion and gender bending which pretty well describes the last ten years of my life... How I came to be in that situation was through a guilt of using pornography (ie: real women in the buff) . I was admitting to feelings of desire which I had denied for a good long time and this was both exciting and something I was deeply ashamed of. Hence I tried to put myself into a womans role by embracing femininity myself for a time and by encouraging older men who found me desireable, which I daresay you find very strange behaviour indeed. At 30 I had a flirtation with a younger man I knew - age 17 (I regard him as my first bisexual crush) and we just confused the heck out of one another and subsequently fell out . In short, we were both feeling things that we had not come to terms with in our own minds and the whole issue of whether or not this was a gay thing got in the way of the simple fact that we each found one another attractive and could have enjoyed a bit of a cuddle together. Instead, we thought far too much about what it meant and we each had our own guilts lurking. So, to answer your question, men are bound to find teenage girls attractive but most are sufficiently living life in the real world to recognise that they are too old to partner them. Feel free to comment if you wish. Sarah, I'm less than a year from 35. (OUCH!!!) I might look at a 13 year old girl and find her pretty and wonder what she will look like as a grown woman but that is not the same as lust, which is what you are talking about. At 23 I was attracted to girls of 15 upwards. As I get older, the age that I regard as an acceptable age for a partner also rises. I don't think the majority of 35 year old men would find someone as young as yourself attractive in that way but of course there are exceptions. Please don't think that all older men are predatory towards you: we are not. I gave your answer thumbs up because I believe you speak the truth as you see it.
2016-03-29 05:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to jobcorps. Theres a 10:1 guy to girl ratio.
Doesn't matter what you look like, the boys will be all over you. Lol.
2007-02-13 21:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Just Bianca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Do not try to attract attentiion to yourself by being loud and show-offish. You want the boy to notice you for who you are, just hang in there someone will come along.
2007-02-13 21:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can attract a seventeen years girl with your intelligence, aex appeal and good dresses. All the best!
2007-02-13 23:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of in time of teen the sexual hormone comes more that why one sex attract to other which is proved by Medical science.
2007-02-13 21:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave like a open minded communicative but sensible type.
2007-02-13 21:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to do any thing extra.
Be yourself. Be neat and clean. Be disciplined.
Boys are like flies - flying in search of fire and flower - they will come soon to you. Be a flower.
2007-02-13 21:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything but wear good clothes and good expression on ur face...wid good body language ...try to copy body language of those girls who r always in demand....
and if u dont get any bf then call me ony my cell - 9820808255
i stay in mumbai
interested only in logical,rational, practical,fun loving,open minded females
2007-02-13 21:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should look attractive enough to catch his attention. Most boys like me wanted girls who are beautiful and intelligent.
2007-02-13 21:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by hacker_lexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋