I Was with the love of my life for 14 years . And It ended In sadness, Had to leave my pets dogs.. one of the dog pasted on. I feel bad and can't stop sometime crying. The man I loved for 14 years and living together married an other woman and is seeing another one while we were living together. When I found out I started drinking. and one night I said god please help me. I took my things and lelfed the place where I use to live for many year. To live alone. But I can't love again. and I feel bad that i left my pets behind and now that one of them die. I miss dearly. my Ex still lives at the place were I lived with him and dino my other dog is there. I'am trying to move on with my life but can't. I got 3 birds and now I want a cat baby boy. to name Globis. But my landlord states no pets. And other tenants have a cat. There no dogs in the building . My Doctor states I should have a cat. to fight the depressions in my life. What do you think on about this? Please Help. Thanks!!
2007-02-13 19:28:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Cats
yep!!you should get a cat or dog to keep u company and to liven up your mood!!!^^
2007-02-13 19:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by valentinegalx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have been the love of your life at one time, but you need to move on... It's natural that you're crying & upset, and I know it's hard but you have to look forwards & not backwards. It's not your fault that this happened, because sometimes it just happens. Your dog didn't die because you left, so don't be feeling bad about that either. Your doctor's right - a cat might help to ease your lonliness if you can get away with having it. You do need to move on though. Maybe talk to a close friend or get counselling if you need it, but you need to somehow stop blaming yourself for everything. Things happen for a reason. You got 14 happy years, so if the next guy can keep you happy for that long you're lucky. Good luck... :)
2007-02-14 03:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by kyls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your doctor really will put into writing that you have been diagnosed with depression and a companion (or "therapy") animal is part of your treatment, you may be able to force your landlord into allowing you to keep a pet.
Check with your state's Civil Rights Commission regarding the wording of your state laws on housing discrimination against people with disabilities.
I'm not sure if I *personally* advocate this approach, but I thought I would inform you that you may have a legal right based on "medical conditions."
2007-02-14 03:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by maxximumjoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but 3 birds and 1 cat is setting yourself up for disaster.
Depending on where you live, your landlord may not restrict your pet ownership. Check your legal rights. Move if you feel you must.
2007-02-14 04:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think you have no choice but to move on sorry it is real,real,real hard but it is true. I think that you should have a cat/dog to keep you company and I would 100% agree with that
2007-02-14 03:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Bullz_ eye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋