Do men really always think about sex?

Question

Or is it just a movie stereotype?I am a woman in my mid 20,s ,
is it wrong for me to always think about sex?I made a choice a long time ago to wait ,not necessarily until i am married,but until I finish getting my career together.

Answer 1

I am a man and I don't always think about sex, but I do admit that it is more than 50% of my thinking. I don't think there is anything wrong with you always thinking about sex. Really, anymore now days, I'm sure there are a lot of people who think about sex most of the time. After all sex/sex appeal is everywhere, tv ads, magazine ads, etc. Anyhow, I don't think there is anything wrong with you, and I say wait untill you are ready rather that be marrige or untill you get your career together.

Answer 2

Everybody does. Sex are everywhere. Even if you don't think about it, I'm sure you'll bump into it. It's the nature of life. It's also a 'need' in your life. That's why God creates all living things with a partner / mate.
Anyway, it doesn't mean that you can simply have sex with anybody at anytime. Good for you because you choose to wait. But when you are saying "not necessarily until I am married, but until I finish getting my career together" it worries me. That's what typical people did now a days. That is why there are so many people having sex before marriage. They are too obsessed about sex. As a result, the birth of illegitimate child everywhere. It has become a culture even though it's wrong in the first place.
Human are the most perfect creature on earth. Given with intellectual mind to rule the world. Human suppose to be able to control everything using those intellectual mind. Do not mess it up. Even though so many intellectual misused it and make all wrong to wright as they like. This leads to a broken community as you can see everywhere.
The thing is, it's just the matter of how you use your mind to control your life including your desire to sex. I know this might sound harsh and ridiculous. When you think deeply into it, then you'll understand. You can think about sex at any time but it must be under control. Instead, you have so many other things more important to think of especially your career and how to manage your life to make it better than toworrow.

Answer 3

Yes we men do. I know I do and I know the other guys talk about it enough so I presume that they do too. Perhaps "always" is too strong a word. "Frequently" or "very often" may be better terms.

However, there are different ways to think about sex. When you have a healthy and satisfying sex life, you think about it the way a gourmand think about good food. He relishes delicious dishes not because he's deprived of them but because he has them often and is always looking forward to experiencing them again in the next meal. When you do not have a plentiful and satisfying sex life you think about it the way a starving man think about food. He thinks about it he's deprived of it.

It isn't wrong at all for you to always think about sex. I think it's great to have a strong sex drive. But to deprive yourself of a natural and healthy outlet is something else. To wait or not to wait is your own personal choice but you can work on putting your career together while having a good sex life too, you know. The two are not mutually exclusive. In fact, I'll even go as far as to say having a good sex life may help you to do well in your career.

Answer 4

I am married and I do not understand what the problem is.I think that men look at sex a lot like a woman. In his "sowing wild oats" days he had sex. But when a man loves a woman and share his life with a woman he sees it as an expression of love. Really, we are emotional creatures. Everyday, we say a million times, "Honey, I love you." and "Honey, what are you thinking." We get vocal confirmation. I think for a man that he shows a woman his love for her by making love.A man gets the confirmation by knowing that he is pleasing to his wife in that way. I think sex is everything for a man in love. Are you married? Really, sometimes you really rather to be watching Lifetime, but I do not think it too much to ask that when your husband wants to express his love for you in that way to comply. Think about how bad you would feel if your husband always turned you down. It hurts their ego, and a man is mostly that.

Answer 5

I think that people in general (men and women) think about sex a lot. It's perfectly normal, so don't worry. If you think that you are thinking about it too much, it may just be that you're curious since you haven't done it. Waiting for the right person will make it all that much better when you do decide to do it...good luck with your career! : )

Answer 6

Hi lady, think about it and do it are 2 different things. I'm in 30s and yes, I do think of sex every now and then. Can't count how many times I think of it a day. But girl, I don't really do it everyday.

Answer 7

They think about sex more than women but I don't believe they think about it all the time.They think about Beer, Football,and fast cars,food at some point. Men get aroused more through visual where as women love touch more than visual.

Answer 8

Yep...they've got two heads and they're always thinking. It just comes natural to them, I guess. You're smart to wait...You'll find a nicer man that way too. Wish you the best.

Answer 9

Do farts stink?? Yes they do. Is the sky blue? Yes it is. Is the grass green? Most of the time. Well this should answer your question...just because that it is nature. Men are pricks.

Answer 10

Only when " I'm in the mood for love" during mating season in planet of apes.
Have you been spending too much time watching those dirty movies when no one is around in planet of apes?
Can get you into trouble with time in planet of apes.