2007-02-13 19:07:29 · 12 answers · asked by bulce g 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You could hold it in and think of thing nice instead or optimistic but it's okay to cry.
2007-02-13 19:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kala J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some times and places that crying is not appropriate. In those cases have a thought prepared that can destract you from what ever makes you cry. Not a happy thought, that is like trying to lift a heavy weight with a feather. Find a thought that holds your interest, like computers, cooking, a favorite mystery movie or book.
Crying can be healthy, but obsessing over something that makes you sad is not healthy. Loosing a loved one needs a lot of tears, in those times, cry as the need arises. The more you hold them back the longer it takes to heal, but obsessing over the loss can tear you apart, so try to keep a balance.
2007-02-14 03:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by J Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you cry coz you sad, well I think that you shouldn't be sad, here's the key , at least it works for me.... when you're feeling happy just don't get too carried away, laughing to much..just remember that you will be sad someday, and also when you have those bad time just don't stay too long in your place... you will have your good time someday, so I guest just keep your mind in a positive ways, balancing your emotion, I guess you will do more than just controlling your tears
2007-02-14 04:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Wisnu S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want them to stop. Not crying doesn't show that you are macho or tough! It just makes you look insensitive and unfeeling. Everyone is built for emotion. Just let it go. You will find that you are happier that way! There will be less confusion in your life. It's natures way of letting your emotions out.
2007-02-21 22:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"taers dont u fall, heart dont u cry"... i dont know who sang the song with this line.. but i think if u r really sad, just cry ur heart out. it can de-stress u. if u're embarass if someone might see u cry, go to some place no one will notice u. when im sad i like to walk. because when i walk, i feel like i left all the sadness behind. until i feel relieve, then would i go back home. just a thought
2007-02-14 03:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by ctkm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to stop tears from falling, it cleans the eye and the soul.
2007-02-14 03:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sherif S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm if u get to the point were u hold it in all the time then u feel even worse all the time cuz ur sad in side and u wont let it go... so its good to cry just let it all out and b happy
2007-02-21 21:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by tabbybell1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get down on your knees and pray. Tell Jesus what is causing you so much pain and ask Him to come into your life and restore healing to your soul and He will. He has done it for me and is waiting for you to give your heart to Him so He can do the same for you.
2007-02-21 16:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by isajas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u don't need to control it....everyone have that feeling...even me too...just let it out....when someone try to stop it from falling.....the tears will fall down.......i don't know why...but that the universal truth....no one can change it...no one.....
2007-02-14 03:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Troncmf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel better to cry then just do it. Sometimes it just feels good to get it out. It's not good to supress your emotions.
2007-02-21 22:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by luh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋