Is there such a thing as a soul mate?

Question

Hi, I’m a guy in my early 20’s and still a virgin. The reason why I’m a virgin is because I’m abstaining from sex till marriage, to give my virginity to the woman I love on our wedding night. But I’ve been worried lately that I’m never going to meet my soul mate because, I often wonder if they exist. I just want to meet a woman that takes my breath away, someone I could not live without. Unfortunately I have not found her yet, I’m afraid that I’m probably going to end up single and alone forever. So is there such a thing as a soul mate? If there is how long did it take you to find yours?

Answer 1

Dear you should not be worried.....instead you should have patience and wait for your other half.. one important thing is to believe.....
Patience rewards and a lack of patient may lead to a broken heart and i`m sure you don`t want to be in such a situation....

Yes your soulmate exists and i`m sure you`ll meet her, she will complement you, love you, care for you and meet your expectations.....

You`ll have to be patient and believe....don`t ever lose hope dear.... The joy you will have when you`ll meet her will be too great to be compared to the time you`ve waited (alone) for your princess.....She`ll surely come....wait for her...

Sincerely i would like very much that my special someone have the qualities as you described you are here....

Answer 2

I think there is such thing as a soul mate. The thing is with soul mates you always meet in really wierd places. You have to make sure they feel the same way about you, as you do them. Don't worry, loads of people haven't found there soulmate, but they always will. Those people who are single when they get old and wrinkly are the ones who had a chance but gave it to something else. Good luck!!!

P.S. this is the largest amount of sense I've written at all on Yahoo!

Answer 3

Yes there is such a thing as a soulmate. Perhaps your expecting it too soon!

Here's the thing. Guys will be attracted to the wrong person right away. Look for friends first. Get some female pen pals. Friends first is usually the best way to go.

If you're attracted to someone do you ask them out right away? Do you wait a while? How long?

My current wife was a pen pal on yahoo in 1999. We became friends and didn't meet for four months. After we met we became closer but not in love or lovers. That came later and it's much better than the other way.

Answer 4

First of all I would say it is very commendable what you are doing, especially in todays society.

Yes there is such a thing as a soul mate, and when you meet them you will know without a category of a doubt. You will know each other. You will meet them when you are meant to meet them. You are still young, but if you get it wrong don't beat yourself up about it, that's life, and your soul mate will not think any less of you, because they are your soul mate.

Answer 5

I was 32 before I met a woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and who also wanted to spend her life with me. If I had waited until then to lose my virginity, it may have turned me into some kind of introverted weirdo. She on the other hand, was a 20 year old virgin. So I guess if you get lucky you will find a 'soulmate' and she will become yours. But, you might find that your soulmate gave her virginity to someone else. Unless you have requirements for your soulmate. In which case your head overrules your heart, and then you are not looking for a soulmate, but rather a compatible partner.


I think the best thing to do is to be yourself. If that means you want to wait, then good for you. But don't do it because you want your soulmate to have held herself to the same standard. If you decide to have sex, there is no reason to go into detail about the number of women you have slept with once you have met your 'soulmate'.


And finally, if you look for a soulmate, and wait long enough, I do believe you will find one. But that doesn't mean you can't be a healthy young man in the mean time. I did and I think I made the right choice.

Answer 6

I had one for 15 years-we never married (my fault entirely) but we were best friends. I was 21 when I met him and even though we were completely different we got along so well. Tragically he died in an accident 18 months ago just about as we were finally going to get together-after I came to my senses! Thought my life had stopped-but I am still here.
All I can say to you is that I am sure everyone has a soul mate and when you do meet them you will know because all those feelings that you mentioned are true, but don't be like me and waste years of your life being stupid

Best Wishes xx

Answer 7

I guess they are called "Kindered Souls" but yes they are out there and I was in your same situation. I was engaged to someone and thought that was "the one" but the Lord told me that the relationship was not what he wanted for me because of his abusive ways and He lead me to another person.....A person that was a blind date to be frank. My sister and her friend set us up and we have now been together for 3 years. I could never dream of being with another at this point and neither can he. The point is, the Lord brings the person he has made for you to you when He decides. Until then, don't stress about it. You will meet your "kindered soul" and live together forever. Just give it time. You are in your early 20s as am I. Don't rush into something you want to last forever.

Answer 8

I don't necessarily believe in soul mates. But keep abstaining its a good thing. Love is a choice you make based on things you like about a person. In other words your love could be anybody not just one person it's your choice. Sex and love are two different things hopefully you have one before the other. Keep going to church you'll find a good girl there best of luck!!!

Answer 9

If I got this about 2years I would have told you you're my soul mate - cause believe me a guy of 20 and still a virgin is like finding a needle in a hay stack. You are really special and so will the girl be who will be your wife, she will have the best of you. i wish i was that lucky, but that is for just some of us. soul mates do exist and you will find yours when the time is right but don't let life stand still enjoy it. be happy but don't let yourself go. good luck in finding the right one and when you do love them with all you are. you are really special. and no I'm not a **** or something like that I'm just 19years and sadly no virgin. sweety you will find your soul mate

Answer 10

You are still very young, no need for rush soon that rush will come when you do meet that special person in your life. Yes I believe that there is someone special out there for you, just got to be smart about it when you do meet that person, she will feel just about right, the kiss sometimes tells you a lot of the person that will make you fall so in love with, the way she will do things for you, how she treats you with so much care. Some women like a challenge, that's for the re-bells, it gets ugly! So be a lover and if they don't like you for who you are next, women are funny, and don't believe everything they tell you, hang around them get to meet their friends, find out everything you can before you commit to anyone, the circle of friends says a lot about them. You want a clean person in your life, you sound like someone who is of respect and will need someone who will appreciate you for who you are...Don't look, love will find you when you least expect it...