Our relationship had reached a halt and it became boring and we fought more. She's my first and she wants to get my curiosity of being with another woman out before we progress. The terms are: One time each, all the way to sexual intercourse. No dating only a hook-up, so in other words, strictly sex. Does it sound like a good idea or disaster?
2007-02-13 18:45:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably a trap.
You are about to lose her.
If you really love her, think hard about how to repair the damage that has been done.
Never fight with a woman. You will NEVER win!!! Accept what she says and try to think of how to show her your point later. A smart man is a man who knows when to keep his mouth shut and his ears open.
2007-02-13 18:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an abominable suggestion!
If your girlfriend has the nerve to even suggest something like this, it's obvious she doesn't love you. Is sex the main problem in your relationship to warrant that kind of suggestion? Ask yourself why you're fighting more and deal with that issue, not by having sex with someone else. How is that going to solve anything? Search within your heart and see if you really want to save your relationship. If the answer is no, then end it decently without resorting to doing something silly like this. You'll only end up getting hurt. There's no such thing as "strictly sex" when you love someone.
2007-02-13 19:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship has become boring, don't look outside the relationship for the answer.
Be creative and find things you are both interested in.
I strongly feel if you would go ahead with the plans that you would totally ruin this relationship forever.
It would be a disaster !!
2007-02-13 18:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by flyinghawk0727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
disaster after all if you had a supermodel as a gf would you allow another man to only have sex with her. no because if you like someone it shouldnt be all about sex, yes good sex is important and if you need to bring someone else in that only shows ur relationship isnt workin so dump her. so your wild oats and then try another relationship
2007-02-13 18:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, recipe for disaster...just such a bad idea, something both you of you will throw in each others faces for years to come. If you love her, don't do it. If it's that boring and you're fighting that much, really do yourself AND her a favor and end it. It will only get worse...good luck...
2007-02-13 18:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sincerely it seems like you`re putting yourself in trouble by willing to do this and also it would be stooping low on behalf of you...in other terms what i`m telling you is don`t ever take a step in this situation.....the results might and will surely be disastrous...don`t play with fire dear...
2007-02-13 18:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let her know that she only hurt and disrespect herself by cheating on her man, the best thing she could do is walk away but finding other man is just a way to satisfy in a short term her feelings. she is immature and when she grows up, she might understand but i think she is still very young, in her head. try to make her understand that if the guy screw up over and over then moving on with her life is better than staying with him, screwing the whole neighborhood.
2016-05-24 08:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she brought it up, shes already got another guy waiting. basically your relationship is over. a little advice, don't give in until you find someone you would like to be in a relationship with, then tell her that you'll take her up on her offer. if not, you'll just be miserable watching her traipse around with another guy
2007-02-13 18:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by metalguru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disaster waiting to strike
2007-02-13 18:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is this really why she wants to do this?? or has some random caught her eye that she may want to "try out"??? if the relationship is destined to go anywhere it will overgrow the curiosity 4 otha ppl
2007-02-13 19:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋